posted on reddit then deleted bc my partner is a redditor.
my partner and i have been together for five years. we're very happy except for one issue - he is a caretaker of an elderly family member and lives about 45 min from me. we've talked about moving in together for about 3 years but i am really hesitant to move 45 min away in a house i don't want to live in with a 3rd person i don't want to live with.
this is our only issue and we don't know how to move forward.
hope someone sees this.