Hello lovely FDSers! I asked this on r/AskFDS but think it got removed since I'm not a verified user there yet. Would love to hear your advice on this situation. A fellow classmate (a kind, potential HVM who has respectfully approached me and that I am currently vetting) is going to help me move into my new apartment. What would be the best way to show my appreciation for his time, energy, gas/parking fees, etc.? I know typically people buy their friends pizza + beer for helping them move, but this is a different situation since there is flirty tension between us. Should I let him help me and just say thanks? Should I buy him food/coffee in exchange for his labor?