I don't think there's anything in the handbook about this. I know the no sex for 90 days rule, but what about any kind of touching? I went on a date last night and it was the first time we ever met in person. He didn't hesitate to hold my hand, link my arm with his while we were walking, etc.. I didn't kiss him; just a hug goodbye but I have kissed on other first dates before. Is initiating physical touch so soon a red flag?