What’s with all the cattiness within FDS circles?! FDS should NOT be all “cult-like” (as in: if you’re against one thing, then you’re against ALL OF IT). If this supposed to be a self-improvement community, one should be able to take what works for them and leave behind what doesn’t.
Nobody shouldn’t be shamed for not agreeing for what doesn’t work for them. And especially, not getting called “pick-me” nor having their (perfectly good) partners (that none of you know) called “porn sick scrotes” (especially when you have no idea how things are going on behind closed doors).
There’s way more about FDS that I agree with than I disagree with. However, the stuff that I disagree with shouldn’t be a matter of “if you’re against this/that, then you’re against all of us”.