First, thanks for creating this site! I know it takes a lot of work and planning.
I just left a long-term marriage. OMG, the emotional and psychological games.
I ghosted (yep, middle of the night with only the possessions I could fit in my car). I know it's pathetic, but sometimes I feel like I left a puppy tied to a tree in the woods (guilt), yet I know he's a grown-ass man who chose to play games every. single. day.
I'm posting here to break my own inertia (I just wasn't sure where to begin as far as a sub-forum...please let me know if there's a better place to start).
I did enough work during the relationship to know I did the right thing and shouldn't feel guilty. Still, any encouragement is appreciated.