I have decided to request a transfer and make a report. Finally, I know of witnesses to scrote boss's behavior who disagree with it, but I know I'm making a risky choice. My previous (wonderful, supportive) boss left the company and I was transferred to be supervised by this boss in the summer.
It has gotten progressively worse since then. I am his only direct report and have been slowly isolated, disparaged, cut-down, and most recently humiliated in front of external groups. Name-calling women and denigrating their looks - women in the group we directly support - is a regular pastime of his and is taking a toll.
I spent every day last week crying and unable to sleep. I witnessed the aftermath of *something* that occurred to a woman consultant who was isolated by him. I was supposed to be involved but was cut out, and her demeanor in our last call, that I was somehow on, was strange. My gut is screaming at me, though logically I'd rather just ignore it. I cannot. Then everything bubbled to the surface.
Seeking advice please. The emotions are settling but very slowly, and this is when my usual strong and logical demeanor is nowhere to be found. Venting and support is great, too.