I've seen people advise how when you have a crush on a guy, it's better to flirt with other men than him. Maybe this will make the guy want to pursue you as many men like "popular" women or you'll end up with another guy who is better than him. While some of these men you have crushes on will really pursue you due to this reason (or similarly, they will start pursuing you after discovering you got hired as a model or something like that), are these men dateable? If they were really that into you, they would have pursued you before other men signal their interest in you. I can't help but think these men are looking for a trophy SO as opposed to love.