Based on a recent post, I thought I'd share my thoughts on this. How people choose to dress is a red flag for me.
Considering the standards for women dressing 'nice' is in so much more scrutiny, why is it only a big deal when the same scrutinizing lens is applied to men?
You're on a date to give a good first impression. If someone does not care about that, they are showing me disrespect. Ontop of that, they have poor social cues, and I don't want to date someone who that doesn't understand nuances.
Red flag material:
He shows up in work clothes. NO
He shows up with dirt on his person
He shows up with B.O.
He shows up looking like he stepped out of a 90s time portal, the bad one. I'm talking low rise skater pants, chains and a loud shirt
You can see his underwear
Off the top of my head, I can think of a few. What are your first date dressing red flags?