I listen to other podcasts regularly and it’s so refreshing to hear other women say they choose to be single and want to stick to their standards instead of settling. FDS is truely everywhere!
A LOT of women are starting to catch on. Even my friends who had “pick me” tendencies, are coming around to the idea of “I’m actually being manipulated, and lied to and holding out hope for a moment that will never happen. How can I change that?” I’ve also noticed more women demanding more from partners. Some are going about it the wrong way (“If you don’t make 100k swipe left”-🤫we don't tell them sis), at least they are making the attempt. You don’t find your balance on a bike the first time you get on. The less dependent women are becoming on men, the less justifiable it is to keep a shitty guy around. Women are able to be nurtured and fulfilled without men, so unless a man is offering some type of value … he’s a liability.
It is quite similar, but at FDS we believe in "not showing your hand", i.e. not revealing all our goals and values at once, but sussing the guys' out first, so they can't just mirror/future fake us. i.e. instead of stating our stances on porn, having children, or desire for marriage we might just ask "what are your thoughts on xyz" and see what he says. And reply with a "I haven't decided yet"---at least in the early stages. Too many women have been caught out with the guys that say "omg I want six kids too and have always dreamed of a house in Bermuda" only to get ghosted post sex.
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I listen to other podcasts regularly and it’s so refreshing to hear other women say they choose to be single and want to stick to their standards instead of settling. FDS is truely everywhere!
I see the block and delete language all over reddit. It’s amazing. FDS is truly changing the world
Ugh, the idea of treating dating like a job interview sounds like a fantastic way of making what should be a fun experience into a miserable one.
A LOT of women are starting to catch on. Even my friends who had “pick me” tendencies, are coming around to the idea of “I’m actually being manipulated, and lied to and holding out hope for a moment that will never happen. How can I change that?” I’ve also noticed more women demanding more from partners. Some are going about it the wrong way (“If you don’t make 100k swipe left”-🤫we don't tell them sis), at least they are making the attempt. You don’t find your balance on a bike the first time you get on. The less dependent women are becoming on men, the less justifiable it is to keep a shitty guy around. Women are able to be nurtured and fulfilled without men, so unless a man is offering some type of value … he’s a liability.
It is quite similar, but at FDS we believe in "not showing your hand", i.e. not revealing all our goals and values at once, but sussing the guys' out first, so they can't just mirror/future fake us. i.e. instead of stating our stances on porn, having children, or desire for marriage we might just ask "what are your thoughts on xyz" and see what he says. And reply with a "I haven't decided yet"---at least in the early stages. Too many women have been caught out with the guys that say "omg I want six kids too and have always dreamed of a house in Bermuda" only to get ghosted post sex.