This myth annoys me. That someone just doesn’t love YOU or the two of you just weren’t right for each other. I’ve never, never ever, met a guy who was abusive and has changed. I’m in my 30s, and the guys I dated at 20 who were cheaters and abusive are STILL that way, only the older they get, the nice part is it becomes more and more obvious what losers they are. It’s crushing when someone who starts off well takes a turn for the worst, which often happens once you trust them, so I get why it’s hard to leave but I promise - good people do not use people! Every respectful man I’ve met treats all women, and humans with basic human respect and dignity. There are fair, considerate, honest, kind people and there are exploitative lying pieces of garbage. If you’re prince turns out to be garbage once you love them…I feel for you, but don’t worry about them meeting another girl and becoming a great guy - they don’t have empathy! We are all either people who use people and disregard them or we are not. The former might marry someone they abuse, but they don’t care about people suffering and hurting. They will always be terrible For that reason.