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At first when I read that she ghosted him after he asked if she "expects men to pay", I figured that she must follow FDS for sure, but then the fact that she agreed to go out with him anyways says otherwise. Hope she finds FDS soon though! She dodged a bullet for sure.
Men truly clown themselves.
He sure taught her a lesson! Not. This just shows how desperate for a power trip he is. Her evenings are free from his disrespectful ass and he's gonna spend another weekend alone and death gripping his dick. He can go out with the imaginary girls interested in him *footage not found*
I love men who are like "I'm not an ATM" but then they expect women to be all over them by date 2 or 3.
Good guys will see paying as an investment and an opportunity to spend time with you, free of expectation. Bad guys won't even treat you with the decency of a cheap escort.
I can't believe she actually let him in her house.
Sounds like pure fantasy. This little Hitler of an incel WISHES he could get close enough to paw at and make an attractive woman cry, haha.
I can't get over the fact that he had to drive for whole 15 minutes! wow! Dude, I commute to work for 1 hour each way. She was clearly right, he wasn't that interested in her and didn't think she was worth it.
"I needed to teach her a lesson" 🚨🚨🚨
My abuser radar is going off the charts
This sounds like a totally made up power trip story and rage bait.
Yes. Yes you are the asshole🥰 If you had to ask people on the internet if you are. You probably are
This reads possibly like a fake Reddit rant from an incel but honestly, it’s a perfect example of why I think the 50/50 mindset is pure misogyny. They say it’s about equality but really it’s about ensuring we have to give everything to men without getting anything in return. You want to find a woman who will be Mommy McBangMaid™️ but you won’t even pay for her meal? Seriously? And don’t get me started on how every guy I’ve ever been on a date with ate and drank way, way more than me. You can’t pay for my salad but expect me to fund your steak and multiple cocktails? Tell me again how it’s equality and not just you being cheap and broke. Work harder!
It’s a good lesson to pay close attention to how men word things!
if a guy asks if you want to ”hang out” or if you want to “meet up” for food-say no, or just block and delete! He is expecting you to pay half.
you want ”id like you take you out on a date” or “can I take you out to dinner?”
only failed me once, when the check came the guy asked me how I’d like to take care of it with him. I gave him a very dirty look and said “well, you invited me to dinner, so thank you for paying for it” and then excused myself to the restroom immediately. he was blocked and deleted within 15 min after the date, just for asking that. Sounds harsh but it sounds exhausting to have to teach a man how to act.
i can only hope he began treating women better after that(btw the check was less than 70 bucks!)
Wow, he’s a real @sshole. If you ask a girl out, you pay. Period. He is not a man. A real man takes care of the women and children in his life. Imagine being married to him. How is he gonna enforce the equality in the relationship when she’s pregnant? Is he gonna carry around 25 lbs strapped to his belly? Gonna take drugs so he swells up and cannot see his feet? Gonna slash himself between his balls and rectum, so he gets a nice tear there? She should name and shame this guy all over the internet to warn other women as to what he’s like.
Men like this are absolutely insane and need to be locked up. With the key thrown away, at that.
What I don't get, is that if this man is all about having a 50/50 girlfriend, why did he go after this particular girl who's not into that? That's what I'll never understand about so many men; they purposely go after women who are outrageously different than they are. I always see atheist men going after religious girls to then clown on her beliefs, or men tricking women to eat things that they are allergic to (or are vegan, gluten free, etc), when they all could literally, just........ be with someone very compatible with them.
I should really create a compendium of those types of posts titled "Why Women Gave Up on Mankind"
What the actual fuck?!
this is the kinda man that sits around and wonders why no woman will even look his way!
Also its so abusive to “teach someone a lesson” like that. And to ignore her body language and force his way into her home like that. It’s very scary. but of course he wonders if hes in the wrong. He acts like an abusive man pushing boundaries and wonders why she doesn’t want him to touch her and see him again.
even look at his tldr, that’s not even the biggest issue here.
Notice how men always want to teach beautiful women a lesson to boost their egos. Fucking psychopaths.
If a man asks you that question in the first place, don't go on a date with him.
There's so many men that just are against you from the getgo. The vengence of all of this is nuts. He's obsessed with "teaching her a lesson." Also love how claims to not know why she's mad when it's clear as day. She dodged a bullet.
He seriously expected to stay over after that lesson??
I honestly hope a woman swindles him and then puts him in the landfill where he belongs.
This dude pretended like he wanted to go 50/50 when he really wanted her to pay for the whole date.
What a piece of crap. He blatantly lied to her by pretending to split it. And not to mention, he found her by stalking her ig.
real question: what should you do if someone asks a question like OP asked at the beginning? Answer it with the assumption that he’s trying to be polite and meet your standards ahead of time so that you’re both in agreement beforehand? Or what?
Please don’t bring toxic misogynist reddit trash into this forum 😣 We all know there is an overflowing of hateful scummy loser men in the world. No need to bring this rage into our space. It is FDS 101 to have a man pay on a first date, never mind to not kiss him, and absolutely don’t show him where you live. This content is bottom of the barrel and only serves to make us feel angry and disgusted, not to actually learn anything or improve ourselves.