I use reddit mainly to remind myself that almost all men are scrotes.
So I was lurking around the "r/bisexualmen" subreddit and stumbled across a thread about a man, who came out to his wife and he was upset that she didn't took it too well.
He wrote that he was faithful and devoted to her and doesn't want to open up the relationship. Sounds good, right?
Well the problem is that he decided to tell her that he's bi while she is 4 months pregnant.
This guy didn't understand why she took it so bad and why she was so emotional.
Like seriously?! His wife is pregnant and he thinks that is a good time to come out? Are you kidding me?
I couldn't help myself and wrote in the comments how selfish he is and if he doesn't realize how stressful pregnancy is for a woman.
You know what happened next? My comment got deleted from the mods after 10 minutes.
These idiots can't handle the truth.
Men have been using women to cover up their hidden sexuality since millennia. Most pretend to be straight but go behind your back to explore their true desires with other people. Even if he didn't cheat, hiding such a thing from his SO and waiting until she's pregnant and trapped to tell her is so low.
Vet always for men who give off queer vibes, men who are 'open' to be with other men, or with trans women. Also, Reddit is a shit show and I always end up closing the app in rage. Better protect my good mood and not let those clowns ruin my day.
Men will lie and pretend to be straight. Trust your instinct. If you get a whiff of bi/gay/trans energy, dump him.
Your post peaked my curiosity enough to read the original post on reddit. He talks about exploring his sexuality with men in his teens but he's only just now realised he's bi when his wife is at her most vulnerable? The audacity... Also noted it's a 12 year relationship but only 1 year married so possible it was a forever gf situation and he couldn't commit. This is why we vet!!
I see this all the time with husbands coming out as trans.
The wife should divorce him immediately and put the kid up for adoption. The marriage is doomed. He doesn’t GAF about his wife or his child’s well-being to do this sort of thing, and he won’t get any better. If she stays with him, he’s gonna start cheating with men. He’s just testing the waters right now due to her being pregnant and him being disgusted at her pregnant body. She’s at her most vulnerable stage, and he’s springing this on her when she’s least likely to leave to get her used to the idea. He basically stole her womb and time, and he’s not thru yet.
This one one of the reasons I love this sub, we can now talk about things like this without the left screaming down our throats calling us a bigot. For any progressives reading this thread: it's not that he's bi, it's just that he told her 4 months into pregnancy. Also, women can have any dating standards they like, aren't you happy these "bigoted" women don't want to date you?
I love my husband to bits but if he came out as bisexual I honestly would consider running.
About 10 years ago when I was new to dating apps I decided to give a guy a chance that identified as bi. Well I show up to the date and he's got a super feminine voice and his arms are skinnier than mine (and my arms are very thin). Nope. Really turned me off on the idea of dating bi men.
The title of this post literally made me laugh out loud. Gee ya think??? Haha 😄
I really struggle with the idea of dating bisexual men, which I feel is hypocritical because I myself am bisexual. You would be surprised how often in LGBT spaces they tend to exclude the "B" for multiple reasons, that being they're too promiscuous, more likely to cheat, straight-passing... none of which is true.
At the same time, dating is not about equality, but equity. The way men and women are treated in relationships will inherently be different. I view bisexual women differently than bisexual men -- the biggest reason being in that while I vastly prefer men, bisexual men in my experience are more likely to be closeted (or closeted gay) and are choosing women due to expectations. And granted, I like more "feminine" men, but some of them are a little /too/ metro for me, yk?
It's not a bad thing, but our identities are attached to our sexuality, and it will forever be a part of us. Therefore, it's way easier for me to avoid bi men if I'm able to do so.
Fuck bi scrotes.
They’re selfish, misogynistic bastards