Redditor asks for FDS-related advice on Scrottit. This is what happens.

"Why do you think fds triggers people so much, specially on Reddit?"

Because we challenge the Patriarchy in a way that Liberal Feminism doesn't. Men don't like being challenged by women, that's not our role. Ours to be submissive, and there is no retaliation like a man who needs to affirm his place in the world.

To be male is to not be female, and being female is bad. Therefore they need to emulate the desired traits of masculinity under the Patriarchy, that being competitiveness, dominance and control. Men get to be "real men" by dominating women, and they don't like when we push back.

LOL no one sabotages men like other men! This guy is right- follow the handbook and date your dream girl. Instead, the reddit cesspool of bro-flakes is screaming at him not to.

This should be you, OP 😆

Won't even bother reading the butthurt replies to that thread, but OP impresses me with his frankness about himself and what he truly desires, because deep down, he knows and we all know the truth: HVW are highly attractive and desirable, the same way HVM are attractive and coveted. Majority of us want to be with a high value mate. It's biological and it makes sense. If only more men could be like him and ask themselves hard questions on how to improve themselves so that they can become better men. Sadly, the popular way to be is to be as low value as possible while playing the victim.

Lol, they stay talking about us.

1) A HVM isn't a hypocritical ass who is personally ugly yet demands a hot partner. 2) Many of the women here are NOT average. I know I am not - I have been a head turner since I hit puberty. Attractive women typically get targeted by narcissists because they are a status symbol. Many women come to FDS after being abused, looking for tips on how to avoid such a circumstance again. 3) Self aggrandizing men HATE boundaries - it strokes their egos to get women who would usually tell them no. You can bet that getting an FDSer would be seen as an ego stroke to some men because of this. 4) These men know full well that FDS is spot on in how it advises women to look for signs of seriousness in her dates and to not waste time on losers. They know that the only guys who hate this common sense approach are beta losers who are simply too lazy to level up.

I think they’re triggered bc they know reading what women want (which for most women is just a decent, kind man who has his life together and is on the woman’s level) is SO ghastly bc these dudes are so below avg that they’d want to kill themselves. I saw SO many comments about the guys wanting to kill themselves over what we say here and it makes me chuckle. Like, why is self improvement leading you to want to self-harm? That’s literally insane to me and it’s WHY they’re such losers. Bc instead of being able to retrospect and improve, they get depressed and sink further into their bad habits and horrible behaviors. Incredibly LV traits. Others were advocating for this dude to be abusive bc “that’s how you make the most kids”… basically these dudes are bottom of the barrel scumbags, confronting that makes them suicidal bc then they realize just what kind of horrible monsters they are. Once women stop putting up with it these men will have to look at themselves and it’s horrifying to see what unlovable monsters they are. They’ll see what we see and they won’t like it. The truth is all men have the POTENTIAL to be HV, good men. A HV man is super different for each woman, too, bc some of us are sporty, some preppy, some nerdy, etc. We’re all different with different tastes, lifestyles, desires, needs, and wants. My HVM can be vastly different than another woman’s HVM. Best example is my sister. She’s and her husband l are both foodies, preppy, want kids, and are incredibly happy together. I’m more of a sporty kinda gal. I like camping, hiking, and don’t want kids. My version of a HVM is going to be more sporty and outdoorsy and he won’t want children. Baseline tho, he’s going to be a good, kind, hygienic, nurturing, loving, and generous man who is happy to provide and invest in a relationship with his woman. That’s literally all we ask and LVM and NVM will find that bare minimum to be too hard of an ask. I say, those dudes don’t matter. We deserve to be happy and if a man can’t do it, then we’re better off single.

if this guy wants to be a HVM just to date someone then i'd rather he not. sounds like he'd only pretend to be HVM instead of genuinely being one.