"You are teaching women to be self-entitled b*tches"

I got called a cult leader the other day, yay.

So, do I have an agenda?

Who do you think I am -- of course I do, duh.

So, why am I so hell-bent on telling women that they are precious, that they should sit back and relax and let the man do it all, that man should MATE-GUARD you against his competition, why all those men should compete against each other to win your affection, and so on and so forth.

So, what agenda am I having here?

Most women still believe deep down that they are NOTHING.

You are raised not only to deeply believe that you are nothing, that you are WORTHLESS;

But also becomes the punching bag to the patriarchy, the men, the society that also feel WORTHLESS.

Oh, all of them, all those scrotes -- they do feel worthless. They feel like they are nothing, they refuse to look inside because they fear the nothingness -- so they let it all out on you.

And the women get so hurt and so traumatized -- they desperately need an outlet but can't let it out on those men that hurt them lest they get murdered -- so they too, let it all out on you.

Why do you think some people get so ANGRY at a woman peacefully minding her own business?

The MAIN reason why I became a Masculina isn't because of MEN -- I didn't interact much with them growing up so they never had the chance to hurt me -- but I was viciously BULLIED by WOMEN of all ages from 9 years old until about 15 years old.

I was the gifted child, but also I was a gentle, quiet, sweet child minding my own business. Men either gave me a wide berth or supported me.

The kind of RAGE all those women have (yes, even my own teachers and older relatives) when they look at me -- I am sure some of you can imagine.

Yes, it was jealousy -- but stems from what?

Because those women feel the worthlessness so deep, that they think they are nothing and are ENRAGED when they see the child me having SOMETHING.

My late father even said one time -- all those people wanted me dead. He was half-joking.

When you truly believe that you are nothing, you are always desperate to "prove" that you are SOMETHING.

Why do you think all the third wave LibFem teaching that are frankly -- too freakin' stupid to even think about -- because all of them are about you becoming a voluntary slave to men (instead of a forced one) --quickly become popular? And made the first and second wave of feminism look like a complete joke?

Like seriously, making you believe that going 50/50 on something he asked you out on "make perfect sense"?

That BDSM is "cool and hip" and normal healthy sex is "lame and stupid"?

That letting a man stay in your house sitting on his ass all day playing games and being a literal parasite -- while you cook, clean, raise his children while working 5 different jobs that you barely even have time to breathe let alone rest is "EmPoWeRmEnT"??

LibFem can spin them all any way they want -- put glitter and gold on them -- but glitter and gold on trash is still trash. All the things people treat as "normal" in the current dating landscape is STUPID. Extremely, incredibly, atrociously S.T.U.P.I.D.

YOU have to work like a mule and chase after him like a fool and humiliate yourself like you are the dirt under his shoe for what? For a 5-minute wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am that you didn't even enjoy?

But why are most women still fighting us when we say "hey, you should be the SPOILED partner. He should be PAMPERING you."?

Spewing all these "Equality" and "OMG he wouldn't want to be your caretaker!!" and "I am not an entitled b*tches I can pay for myself!!" and blah blah?

Because she deeply, deeply internalized that unless she strive to "prove" herself to the man -- he will see that SHE IS NOTHING and will not stay loyal to her.

It is a deep sense of insecurity and worthlessness. When out on the date she isn't even looking at him or thinking about him -- she is constantly thinking "How can I convince this man that I am of value and he should give me a chance".

Because when you feel worthless -- you are desperately seeking the validation and attention from the outside world. That sense of worthlessness in like a black void -- it is a horrible feeling of constant unsettlement, you are never peaceful.

That's why you are desperate to prove to him that you are "useful", that you have "value" to him -- Not because he is the greatest man on earth, no -- but you are hoping that by having him giving you continuous attention and validation -- you will finally get away from that black void inside you.

And of course the patriarchy and society keep helping reaffirm that sense of worthlessness by constantly telling you -- "You are nothing unless you get x,y,z and do w,t,f for men" -- so even if the woman have all the money and the career and the big house, she still end up dancing like a fool to pursue that useless man.

So again, what is my agenda here?

I am trying to tell you that you are SOMETHING.

There's a reason why you are born onto this earth.

There's a reason why you are naturally good at this thing and struggle with that thing.

There's a reason why you go on this journey instead of the journey your friend's have.

It is because you are SOMETHING. And you are on the continuous journey to find YOUR SOMETHING.

What SOMETHING? I don't know -- I am slowly trying to rediscover my SOMETHING -- and you have to find yours. It is highly highly individualized, no two SOMETHING is the exact same.

It is the reason WHY YOU are born onto this earth.

It is the reason WHY YOU are naturally good at this thing and struggle with that thing.

It is the reason WHY YOU go on this journey instead of the journey your friend's have.

The one thing I can definitely tell you is that that SOMETHING is definitely not crying into the pillow for some useless scrotes and spending your days complaining about shitty men being shitty over and over and over and over again.

When you realize that you are SOMETHING -- you start a wind of change.

This is not about career or hustle or making money -- all those are fine and good, but they are not that SOMETHING.

When you understand that you are SOMETHING -- your goals become bigger than just making money and dealing with scrotes.

Your SOMETHING is the continuation from the women of the past, helping the women of the present, and start a change for the women of the future.

I want the fourth wave to be full of women who understand that they are SOMETHING -- that's how you start the wind of change.

"So you mean I have to be an activist or something?"

No, but you should be the wise woman that embody and spread the truth, even to one other person.

The women around you, the teenage girls around you, the children around you, your future daughter should see you and start thinking

"That's what I want to be. Not all these degrading bullsh*t that are so popular now."

I have had enough of all these 50/50, workhorse mule, breadwinner wife that OBVIOUSLY ISN'T WORKING despite all the people around me trying to convince me that "This is normal".

No, it is not. Just because y'all are doing it doesn't mean it is RIGHT.

When you realize that you are SOMETHING -- you don't even wonder anymore why would any man treat you as his PRECIOUS. That's his business -- you don't worry about it.

You are busy. You don't have time to think about useless stuff -- like "Why does he likes me? What part of me? Why he choose me? Why why why??" and becomes the cliché girlfriend wanting attention and validation 24/7.

You are the wise woman, the library -- you got sh*t to do. Why he likes you? Who knows, but him providing and protecting you allows you to continue on this journey to find your SOMETHING.

And you will INSPIRE him to become a wayy better man than he is now. And teach your children to look up to you and become a better person themselves. That's why you are the IMMOVABLE MOVER.

You are focusing on yourself -- and you create the ripple effect that affects everyone around you. You are the butterfly that flaps her wings and the wind changes.

The HVM will look at you and think "I want her to continue doing whatever this amazing thing she is doing, and I will take care of everything so she doesn't have to worry about anything."

That's why you are HIS PRECIOUS. Your DEPTH are unlike any other women he ever see in his life. It is a no-brainer that he can't even look at any other women because once he experience that depth, any other surface-level things other women offer don't mean anything to him.

So, "SeLf-EnTiTLeD B*tches"?

A woman who is on the journey to find her SOMETHING is both the impenetrable fortress, but also a humble knowledge-seeker.

You are finding yourself, you are understanding yourself.

You are learning about yourself and the world around you.

You are learning the reason why you are born onto this earth.

You are finding the way to be balanced and at peace with yourself.

The more you understand yourself, the more you understand about the world and the people around you.

You are no longer confused and in pain -- you UNDERSTAND.

Being confused is why you are constantly in pain -- you desperately want answer as to WHY things happen this way and that to you.

That's why you MUST find your SOMETHING -- at the very least, you can start to understand some of the pain.

Like why I was viciously BULLIED by WOMEN of all ages from 9 years old until about 15 years old.

I understand now. So I can move on.

Does that sounds like being self-entitled to you?

Being a High Value Woman is not about the surface-level stuff -- it is about understanding that you are SOMETHING and nothing other people do will affect you anymore

They can ostracize you, spread false lies about you, trying to manipulate and gaslight and backstab you, trying to convince you that you are worthless, trying to make fun of your age or background or race or income level or whatever;

And you will just stare at them and snort. And walk away.

Because you understand you are SOMETHING. You may not know fully what it is yet -- but you are on that journey. And you are slowly finding that peace and settlement within yourself.

They can ostracize you all they want -- you are busy anyway, less noise and flies flying around.

So now, I officially welcome y'all to my cult of "Finding Your SOMETHING", yay~~~ (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧

Stay safe.