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Girl she really cleaned his shoes! No mam!
wow, this reminds me of my pickmesha days when I would Iron my ex's clothing before he went to work. yikes!
Same, I used to have to iron all my exes work clothes even though I worked more hours than him then he'd get mad that they weren't ironed perfectly.
My husband once tried to correct me while I was ironing his shirt. To be fair, he was professionally trained, however that was the last thing I ever ironed of his. 26 years and counting. He irons my stuff now without complaint, after all, he is the expert... 😂😂😂
Grateful for pathetic scraps...
Literally. "Love you dear" written on a crusty piece of SCRAP paper like he's in elementary school after she did all that.
And why can't this grown ass man dress himself and clean his own shoes?
As a woman of Indian origin, this whole video is one of the many reasons I am hesitant to ever get married within my culture, even though I‘d love to one day have a common religious, linguistic and cultural background with my husband. Pickmeism is standard, and men’s abuse of women is rampant in Desi culture as a whole, unfortunately 😔
Is this supposed to be serious, or are they making fun of the relationship and the fact that she's happy with a piece of paper saying "love you dear"?
This is basically the relationships of most of my family. They (and I ) were raised in a very strict judeochristian culture where men are earn all the money, but women are basically submissive servants in return for a nice lifestyle. I grew up hearing my dad treat my mother like a stupid child and my mother encouraging it (very very codependent). My nan took her own life when I was in my teens as she was so unhappy. Then my older aunt became widowed and basically had no idea how to take care of herself - a terrifying thing to realise at 68 years old! She is now entirely reliant on her only child, who barely has a life of her own as a result.
I still struggle with half wanting the traditional marriage I was trained to expect and definitely have ingrained Pickmesha tendancies. It's difficult to undo decades of conditioning. Although I'm nearing 40 and have only met two men I was seriously interested in (and both chose other women in the end), so I don't think I'll have to face the dilema of marriage dynamics anyway. But watching the above video makes me sad on many levels.