I’m a healthcare professional, a while ago I started dating this guy who I had some mutual friends with. He was handsome, had a good career, nice car, own house and was a real gentleman. The dates were always fun and things were going well. This was until he started asking me questions regarding his health. He kept messaging me and asking what symptoms mean and whether he should be worried. Initially I didn't mind until it became so frequent thar I questioned him and he admitted he had really bad health anxiety and had done his entire life. I immediately broke off with him as his motives were entirely self centred, using my expertise for his own flaws and benefit and looking for a live in doctor and carer. No way.