So was talking to a guy I’d started to like on OLD. Good conversation and similar interests too. Plus I was attracted. He showed confidence in just throwing it out there that he’d like to take me on a date (he used the word date. Unheard of these days) I said I’d like that and would speak about it later as I was busy. Later on whilst messaging he never brought it up again. I was very annoyed. The next day he asked if I’d be free for a coffee or drink!!!! What a total fuckery!!! I wrote out that I don’t do coffee or drink dates but then decided I didn’t want to waste my time and energy so suggested a FaceTime call instead and let him know then. Glad I did as I thought it was going great until he wrapped up the call after 10mins!!!! And he said we should go out soon….soon??! Those were red flags to me. Why end the call so soon? Why not arrange something there and then?
Afterwards I received no follow up text…crickets!! Later in the evening I thought I’d check if he was on the online dating site. And there he was! So I blocked him on everything!
If a man can’t make plans asap or have the decency to follow up a call with ‘enjoyed speaking let’s go out’
FUCK HIM OFF!
He shouldn’t be hesitant and making space for other men to snap you up. That means hes a time waster and not into you. Save your time and energy queens.