The wedding was a few months away. I thought we were in a steady, loving relationship. I had vetted like hell and continued to vet (I wouldnt have said yes otherwise). This was totally shocking, unbelievable and I cannot believe the audacity.
The day after he left, I transfered all the money, closed accounts and changed the passwords. I let my friends and family know, and to block and delete. (I also did this) I wrote a detailed email of what he owes me, and who to contact to cancel the wedding. I packed the rest of his shit up, arranged a time via email for him to collect and had my friend answer the door, after he had paid up.
The days after I have been doing yoga every day, signed up for classes - did my first zumba today! Bought a car with the money he paid me. Started organising the house, went on a night out with my girlfriends, booked shows to go and see, and found a nice place to volunteer.
I am so thankful that his mask slipped before the wedding, and definitely before kids.
Ill continue leveling up, and get the hand book engrained before I even consider seeing another man. I'll date myself for now 💅