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They all had a ride. Every woman he knew, was friends with, his homeboys wife-- he slept with them all. What's worse is they still wanted him. Idky. The sex wasn't great. He's small to average. He's barely a full grown man at 5'8". Yes, even the married ones would call him and invite him to dinner alone. Why???
When we met, he had some money. He was a big fish in a tiny tiny pond. A couple wrenches were thrown into the mix and by the end, we had moved to a new city and suddenly I was the sole breadwinner, barely making a decent wage. I couldn't cover all the bills with my pay.
He made my last few months miserable. He would pick and agitate me when I left for work, always accusing me of cheating. I'd go to work in tears.
I hated coming home. I'd sit through green lights when I got close to the house. I'd come home to a demand to make dinner from someone who sat there all day. Yeah, let's see if this meat will thaw out at 11:30 at night.
Thankfully, my sister said if I wanted to leave, I could stay with her and about 2 weeks later, I did just that. Called my sister and told her to pick me up. He was headed to a friends and i said that I wouldnt be here when he got back, i was leaving.
Oh the crush. He called every day. Butt dialed me at night. He really thought I was coming back lol. We would cross paths occasionally, for mail and such and I looked amazing. Losing the dead weight worked wonders for me.
After 5 years of separation, I finally paid for a divorce and I was even sneaky about that. I did "self service" divorce, which entails sending a certified letter. I sent it to an old address of ours that I knew he wasnt living at, so he couldn't contest. Then I had to send the sheriff out to serve him. I sent the sheriff to the sane address. Then I had to run an ad in the local newspaper where we used to live. After that i sent a letter to the judge explaining that I couldnt find him and its been 5 years. A week later, I was done with the town bike.
He was free to take more laps with women who enjoyed the ride way more than I ever did.
Just bc a man is highly sought after or other women want him doesnt mean he's worth anything.
Holy hell this is the first time I've heard about self service divorces my respect just went way up
Smart. If he knew you were divorcing him he would’ve hired a lawyer and fought you to get money from you.
You are a rockstar and He’s a Nasty ass bike with deflated tires and a rusted chain. Good for you, Queen ❤️ I too spent a lot of time sitting in traffic, taking the long way home, closing the bar, etc. to avoid going home to my ex-husband. It’s a terrible way to live. I’m so glad you got out and in such a brilliant way!