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OMG did anyone see the comment about a "Dinner Dan"? A Dinner Dan is a man who will gladly take you to dinners because he's expecting sex out of you.
The only men I attract these days (the only man I'll actually agree to go out with) are so high quality that when they take me to dinner it is CLEAR that they aren't expecting sex out of me. He is happy with my feminine energy, and I can sense it right away. It makes me feel comfortable in his presence and very taken care of.
Granted - you have to wait around a little longer and wade through a lot of trash to find these men. But they definitely do exist.
I lucked out. My first boyfriend never let me pay for anything. Setting that bar high for me right at the start (I was all ready to pay for myself, too, because I had no idea how these things work) 😁
Seeing that even a teenage boy with barely any money can pull that off - grown men have no excuse.
so where’s your 50% when she gets pregnant? or you give her an STD that can cause cancer in her and not you? Didn’t cross his mind that she can’t afford the place, typical scrote can’t see past his tiny dick. I don’t know what show this is but she should end it immediately.
Oh good grief. There's no doubt in my mind that confused, insecure loser DOES NOT plan on "contributing equally" in the relationship in any meaningful way. It's telling that he thinks financials are only thing involved.
Didn't even watched the whole video before I rolled my eyes and clicked off. Here's my logical stance on this. If a man asks me if I wanted to split the bill, despite him being the one to ask me out? I wouldn't ask him any questions. I wouldn't badger him. I wouldn't even say a word, except a polite smile, paying my half, and then making my peaceful departure. He won't get a kiss from me, and if he tries, I'll just hit him with the "Just see you as a friend type" before slipping into the taxi and driving off into the night. He will be promptly blocked while I'm in the car and I'll never speak to him again.
If he wants to go 50/50, I can go 50/50 with everything else. He'll get half of my affection, aka friendzoned/never talk to him again-zoned but let him be in peace.
Exhibit A that wealth does not make you a HVM!!
When I resumed dating after finding FDS, I took some enjoyment on mediocre first dates (dinner dates!) watching men squirm when the check was brought and they were waiting to see if I would offer to split it. NOPE! None of them were brave enough to overcome my icy blindness toward the check and ask if we could split it. So the audacity of this multimillionaire asking to split the check made me utterly disgusted.
I had a guy tell me today that the reason he sticks to 50/50, by way of alternating paying for dates, is because he's experienced multiple women get offended if he offers to pay for them. I just can't deal with this shit.
Sorry, but I'll have to call bullshit on this one. Men love to claim that those evil feminists get offended if they offer to pay or hold a door open. Short of meeting an actual insane person that doesn't happen. Period.
Do you know what's more likely?
The women acted "offended" - and rightfully so - because he offered to pay in a way that implied that he expected something (aka a kiss, sex, a second date...) in return or was belittling in a "let me treat the little lady" way. Damn right, I will "act offended" at that. Also, a true gentleman doesn't "offer to pay". He just does and does it discreetly before the other party has a chance to even think about it. I already inwardly roll my eyes when they go "Yeah, I CAN pay for both of us" or make a production out of it to flaunt their "generosity". In my family it's always been the norm that the host discreetly pays for everyone without making a big production out of it before the check even comes. Like excusing themselves to the bathroom and discreetly paying for everyone on the way back and just saying "It's already taken care of" when someone inquires.
Scenario two would be that he actually took the whole "fake reaching for my wallet and going "Oh no, you don't have to" - spiel we have been groomed into by now for more than a polite gesture that should obviously be declined.
It's good that he showed himself to her at this point. Now she can block, delete, and find a real man. I don't even nickel and dime my girlfriends. We take turns treating each other to dinners, and we don't expect sex afterwards either. So why would any woman want to get all dressed up and have to pay to spend time with a guy who doesn't even like her? This is the kind of guy who wants a trophy wife but doesn't want to pay for her upkeep. My sister's ex husband is just like this. He leaves the table whenever the bill comes, and it's disgusting. I have plenty of money, so I'm not worried about him not paying, but his lack of generosity is astounding and is a sickness.
Look at her😩. And look at him. That is all.
To paraphrase an old saying: it's not the size of his peni~ I mean, pay cheque (or net worth) that matters the most, it's what he does with what he has. 😆
“Oh baby, in relationships I’m not ‘liberal’. I’m very traditionalist: I stick to old-school gender dynamics when dating and in marriage, so you pay.”
That’s why I ditched modern, white feminism in favor of other points of views.