Good morning from Malaysia! I don't really know if there's any Malaysian ladies that are aware of FDS but if you are, I'd really love to meet you all :) I figured FDS when I signed up for reddit after my latest break up(2 months since) which have left me confused of myself. I was gaslighted, I was given silent treatment, I was walking on eggshells and so much more emotional abuse when I was in that toxic relationship. Now, I'm reading books recommended on r/FemaleDatingStrategy and r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. Upon reading Lundy Bancroft, I began to realize that I was abused, and I immediately seek for help from a professional counsellor. I'm also taking up muay thai classes, on top of running that I would do almost every morning. I'll be sitting for a professional exam in two months time that would allow me to become a lawyer though I have been getting offers to work in investment, finance and banking sector. Guess my ex is a joke, huh? Thank you everyone for the vibe. I can't thank you all enough for this site. So long the pickmeisha me! I'm a different person now.