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If I see this topic come up one more time (especially on Reddit) I might blow a fuse.
It’s basically forbidden that you point out a man is unattractive, especially if you’re offended that he approached you. Then, as an attempt to humble you, people will claim you have a shitty personality, or you’re not as attractive as you think you are.
We know for a fact that many men are delusional and think they’re entitled to a 10/10- even though they look like they fell off a cliff and hit every branch on the way down. As a woman, you know it feels offensive when these kinds approach you because in their mind you’re on the same level. It’s beyond their comprehension that women have standards and preferences, and if they do sense that they always tell us our standards are too high.
Anyone else relate to this??
This reminds me...
I was recently hit on by a coworker from a different department during what first looked like a work meeting (complete clusterfuck of "no gos" in itself) but the audacity. I'm single, childfree, conventionally attractive, well-earning, educated and in my mid-30s. He is more than 10 years older than me, overweight and looking like a bridge troll, already divorced once with two kids (one of which he proudly told me he fathered at 17...) and one grandkid (the daughter also became a teen mom) who all live with him because the mom took off, with a high school diploma and in a dead end career.
What on earth possessed this man to make him think I'd go "Yeah, I totally want some of that. I always dreamt of sleeping with your ugly ass after you already disappointed one wife to the point of her running for the hills and being your teenage daughter's baby's step grandma at 34!". No red flags here at all.
Heaps of dudes approached me that I find unattractive. For my safety I just laugh it off saying I’m taken hopefully they’ll leave me alone. If they insist on calling them I just give their number away to scam sites. Let these scammers call him.
I do have an ugly personality and IDGAF how it makes baldies feel
He approached this woman because the thought the one next to her was uglier so, who's the mean one?
Yes. I was watching The Crappy Childhood Fairy on YT for a couple of months/years, until I realized that she was a severe pickme. One of the things that pointed me in her pickmeism direction was when she was reading a letter from a young woman in which she complained how 'a creepy old dude' approached her in a bar. And Anna (The Fairy) immediately jumped to the guy's defence, saying how "he's still a person" and shouldn't be called "creepy," completely ignoring the fact that he was about 50 years older than the letter writer 🙄. So personally, I (luckily) don't have experience with this, but it's just another attempt at trying to peg women and bring them down.