What's the tiniest, weirdest dealbreaker 🚩 you've had in a relationship?

Walking in front of me or subtle put downs at my expense are big deal breakers for me now. If there’s any sign of malicious insecurity like little digs through unfunny “jokes” I’m walking away without explanation. I honestly think people’s quirks are normal and forgivable but their intentions are everything. If a man is insecure it’s impossible for him to truly be a HVM, he will act like an actual bitch or a bargain bin mean gay Regina George ripoff instead.

The sunscreen example would fit into this too for me because it shows their intentions: tearing you down for having the ability to care for yourself while they remain useless dusties.

When they unpromptedly compare women to men’s issues framing men as victims or suffering more by saying stuff like “women get so much more fashion styles than men” it means he probably has severe insecurities and hatred for a mother who neglected him. It’s on his mind for a reason. It’s usually a pick me boymom who birth and brainwash these dusties, imagine her as a MIL, there’s a surprisingly high amount of them. They usually can’t be HVM because their pick me mom had no standards so there’s not even any good men around these them their entire lives, they may crave men intimately secretly because their pick me mom ran off their father.

This is why I try to see how he treats his family if he treats them terribly or has no boundaries he will use you as his punching bag for his family’s bad behavior. He will tolerate the family because he’s not mentally strong and a weakling who serves pick me mommy and may choose her over his own children. It’s sad but they use the women they date as a stand in for their shitty mom to use as a resentment funnel while he soothes the pick me mother because these boy moms program their dusty sons to be their emotional boyfriend robbing the child of their identity, I stay far away this type of dusty so any small tiny sign of it I am attuned to, I stay away from them they usually become narcissists because their pick me moms turned them into a golden child.

When they walk ahead of me I used to get sad and stressed trying to keep up, now I let these boymom dusties get lost ahead and lose me. I used to stress but now they end up looking incompetent and stupid for losing track of me, it’s so funny. Thank god for FDS