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I’d like to submit a much-needed addendum to the infamous phrase “He’s Just Not That into You”. Although it’s a good way for women to prevent ourselves from falling for lukewarm, noncommittal men, we also need to collectively realize that it literally makes no difference whether a Low Value Male (“LVM”) loves you or not. Either way, he’ll eventually treat you badly and will *never* care about your long-term happiness. He could be 100% into you. Hell, he could be ready to sacrifice his life for you. And guess what? You‘ll *still* get treated like sh*t. I like to think about it like this: imagine two men. One man is an LVM, the other is an HVM. Both are holding sealed boxes. Inside of the HVM’s box, he has a collection of all the good treatment a woman deserves. To emphasize: The HVM’s capacity to treat a woman like a queen existed BEFORE he even met a woman and began developing attraction towards her. Then we have the LVM’s box. There’s absolutely nothing in it. Not a goddamn thing. Actually, I take that back, it’s actually a black hole, it’s less than nothing. But this man will have the audacity to say that if he’s “attracted to you enough” he’ll give you tHe WoRLd. “If she can ChAnGe Me, THEN I will treat her well.” In short, he makes the woman think that she can “create” her own good treatment by getting him to be more attracted to her. The LVM scams you into putting in alllll the work for literally less than nothing, because you think that his attraction to you determines your treatment. No. F*CK NO. The capacity to treat women well is a pre-existing condition. It is not something that is brought about, created, or changed in a man. An HVM already knows how to treat a woman well, and just wants to focus that capacity on his preferred woman. He knows that his attraction to a specific woman doesn’t manifest or create the ability to respect women in general. It just gives him a little direction on who he wants to invest that gift into. If an HVM is not attracted to you, he simply won’t even entertain your feelings. Nor will he give you a sneak peak of this magic box of good treatment. He’ll respectfully decline interest. Ladies, don’t be fooled by an LVM. Even if he goes AWOOGA for you, he’s still going to ruin your life. If he’s into you, this is what will happen: That LVM will LIE to you about who he is and give you the “HVM lite free trial” to convince you that his box is the same as the HVM, even though it’s not. Then, because these LVM do not understand the point of continually investing in you to, idk, make you happy (???), they will stop as SOON as they feel like they’ve caught you and converted you to mommybangmaidism. From there, you will never again see that “supposed HVM” you saw in the beginning, and your value will continually decline as he loses respect for you for tolerating it (even though you became the exact cool-girl he said he “wanted”). Why? Well, for low value men, the magic box of good treatment is a trap. They pretend to give good treatment to *deceive* you into thinking that they’re great in the beginning and that you need to chase them to receive the full subscription to HVM ™️. The good treatment he’ll give is temporary, and it’s a full-on scam to get you to give unpaid labor until you die (probably first, mind you). For HVM, it’s a gift. They are naturally like that, they just want someone to give it to. LEARN 👏 THE 👏 DIFFERENCE 👏. It's crucial.

Last year, I was sitting butt naked in a German sauna with various men of various ages and sizes. I was at my local gym; that evening the swimming pool was inaccessible as there were women taking aqua aerobics classes there. One man complained about this as we sat in the sauna. He mocked the women, trying to draw chuckles from us. He said they needed to be assisted in moving their asses. He insinuated they were infants, or physically disabled and in need of guided care. I saw them as mothers and women with weight problems taking one damn hour for themselves to work on their health. They deserved those classes, that space in the pool, and that self-care. I looked over at the man (carefully, because I didn’t want to look like I was staring in a sauna and cause people to get the wrong idea) and saw he was overweight, I had to bite my tongue to not blurt out: “Hey you look like you need such a class, buddy!” Then I realized: most of the time I’ve heard a woman being criticized or shamed about her weight, it’s nearly always been a man doing it. And not only that, he’s been overweight himself or struggling with this issue. Psychologists describe ‘projection’ as one person projecting their feelings, desires and opinions onto others as a defense mechanism. Within a patriarchy, mediocre men project on women they encounter. Fast forward to a few months ago, I announced I was pregnant to a relative of my partner. He chimes in almost immediately with “Ha ha, how are you going to manage with that weight in the summer time?!” He may have seen it as a friendly dig, but I saw it as not only a limp fisted attempt at humor doused in misogyny. But also, I saw he was actually speaking about himself. I wanted to ask him how he manages with his huge beer belly in the summer heat, but settled for cutting off contact. I’ve been gifted with being skinny all my life. Even pregnant I resemble a watermelon thief with my skinny arms and swollen belly. I’ve had zero issues with any weight I’ve gained; every kilo is good for my baby. I’ve also grown up watching my mother and other people I love struggling with their weight, counting calories, fretting about what people think, taking abuse and being shamed for something that they feel helpless about. And usually by men who themselves looked like they were not many years away from heart attack. Why are women shamed by fat men for having weight? It's projection. Women naturally have bodies that hold more fat, which makes sense in terms of evolution. The male body is more muscular and from an evolutionary perspective isn’t supposed to be fat. Another major patriarchal projection? Slut shaming women. For an art project I researched how many English and German curse words there are for women. So far, I’ve collected around 50. Many of them are used to describe a woman as slutty, loose, easy or to insinuate she’s prostitute. The funny thing is, women aren’t the gender that actually acts slutty or loose. Men pay for sex; they need it more than women. Men want sex so bad they spike women‘s drinks and recently have even started injecting victims in nightclubs. Men harass and catcall women on the street. They sexually assault and rape girls and women regardless of age, clothing, or circumstance. Men make laws to force women to cover up because they can’t control themselves. Men have religions that cater to their sexual needs, giving him access to a wife, making it her duty to have sex and to have his babies. She is often bound by chastity, yet he is free to be the real slut. How many women have gone their whole lives without having an orgasm? Men strive to have sex, to be desirable. This is for most women, a given. We are mostly desired, pursued and offered sex. Who are the real sluts if men are always doing the pursuing? Regardless of what country or which time in history, the patriarchy is unable to escape one cold, hard, fact: a man will never have the intrinsic biological value a girl or woman naturally has. She is not loose or promiscuous, he is. The patriarchy thrives on lies and projections. Once you wake up to it you start to see it everywhere. And only then you can start the work of dismantling it.

This story reposted with edits by FDS ADMINS with permission from anonymous... About a year ago, I introduced my cousin to FDS. After some time riding a roller coaster of emotions when the rose colored glasses were knocked clean off her face, she wanted to do a little social experiment to see what kind of lies the men she knew would tell. She gathered a few of her female friends & family and had them download dating apps and set their location to areas where she knew local scrotes would be (she lives in a smallish European country). Then, she had them deliberately look for and match ONLY with men she knew as friends, friends of friends, acquaintances, exes, coworkers, etc. The messages between her friends and these scrotes were shared in a group chat. Ladies, let me tell you. EVERY. SINGLE. SCROTE. LIED. All of them. They ALL LIED to my cousin’s friends. They lied about their hobbies. The lied about their dating history. They outright lied about their line of work, or significantly exaggerated what they did. They lied to mirror their answers to whatever the women they were talking to said their background and interests were. A lot of men sent their phone numbers early into the conversation. My cousin texted the numbers from a VoIP phone number using random fake names to see if they would notice. For example, she would text something along the lines of. “Hey this is Bloom/ Ria/Fleur/ thanks for sharing your number. How are you?” One guy responded. “Hey there! Loved your profile!” They were all so fake!!! 'His mom does NOT have Alzheimer’s and does NOT live in a nursing home. She is elderly, but in good health, and lives at home with him and his dad, who is very much alive. ' Some of the men matched with more than one of her friends and copy and pasted the same messages between them. Most copied messages were obvious, but some appeared very genuine. One of the worst men copied an entire heartfelt paragraph to four different women after asking them the exact same seemingly deep questions about themselves. He then added: “I was born in Singapore but moved here when I was 14. I’m half Indian and half Persian and own a software dev business and also have a real estate company. I live by myself and also take care of mum (she has Alzheimer’s) for a few hours in the Nursing home every day. I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone engaging and fun. I really value good conversations amazing physical chemistry and overall companionship.” He told another woman he was born in London and another that he was born in Indonesia. Further, he claimed that he got divorced two years ago because his wife left him for another man. Here is what we know about him in real life: His wife left him because he was an absolute d**k who beat her and cheated on her. It’s well known among the small community my cousin lives in. His dad started those businesses and still owns them. His mom does NOT have Alzheimer’s and does NOT live in a nursing home. She is elderly, but in good health, and lives at home with him and his dad, who is very much alive. I know some people think that FDS is harsh but after witnessing the results of this experiment, it’s really not. I knew men lied but I didn't know they lied about everything and anything unnecessarily! I'm never sleeping with another man unless we're in a committed relationship for 6 months and he's willing to get tested together. In fact, I'm happy never dating again & staying single.

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