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  • FDS | The Female Dating Strategy

    The Female Dating Strategy is a spinoff forum from Reddit's r/femaledatingstrategy. Exclusively for women who want to take control of their lives. We use realism, research & collective experience to create strategies to optimize your life. #Reddit There’s No Dream Woman Who Can Magically Fix Your Ex Just know that these men don't change, they just change tactics Featured Posts Advertisement Advertisement Advertisement Latest Podcasts Support on Patreon Support on Patreon Top 5 Daily Posts My Cousin Designed A Dating App Experiment to Test Her Male Friends and EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. LIED. Contrary to what this scrote claimed, his mom does NOT have Alzheimers. LIES MEN TELL Backfooting: The Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You To Know About Reject men's labels of you DATING Men Have No Clue Why Women Even Bother What We Learned From Asking Men About Their Value is THEY HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE. SCROTES MAD Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man? Why Doesn't FDS Focus On Improving External Beauty? DATING 37 Lies You Were Taught About Men All The Lies About Men and Terrible Dating Advice You Were Given in One Convenient List DATING The Latest DATING STRATEGY “He’s Just Not That Into You” Is a Phrase That Only Applies to SOME Men. Here’s why. He could be 100% into you. And guess what? You‘ll *still* get treated like sh*t. LIES MEN TELL My Cousin Designed A Dating App Experiment to Test Her Male Friends and EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. LIED. Contrary to what this scrote claimed, his mom does NOT have Alzheimers. LIES MEN TELL Backfooting: The Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You To Know About Reject men's labels of you DATING

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  • Feminism | FemaleDatingStrategy

    Advertisement < Back Feminism Featured Blog Posts Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Name, Title Add a Title Change the text and make it your own. Click here to begin editing. Click Here Add a Title Change the text and make it your own. Click here to begin editing. Click Here Add a Title Change the text and make it your own. Click here to begin editing. Click Here Recent Posts “He’s Just Not That Into You” Is a Phrase That Only Applies to SOME Men. Here’s why. He could be 100% into you. And guess what? You‘ll *still* get treated like sh*t. LIES MEN TELL snake_venom_nail_polish Patriarchal Projection: Why it’s Them and Definitely Not Us The patriarchy thrives on lies and projections. LIES MEN TELL TrashBagWitch My Cousin Designed A Dating App Experiment to Test Her Male Friends and EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. LIED. Contrary to what this scrote claimed, his mom does NOT have Alzheimers. LIES MEN TELL Admin Female Dating Strategy Backfooting: The Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You To Know About Reject men's labels of you DATING Podcast_Lilith The First Straws: Learning From Past Abuse The First Straw Is The Last Straw LEVEL UP Minerva Advertisement Top Forum Posts Join Forum Discussion Previous Next

  • Health & Wellness | FemaleDatingStrategy

    Advertisement < Back Health & Wellness Featured Blog Posts Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Name, Title Add a Title Change the text and make it your own. Click here to begin editing. Click Here Add a Title Change the text and make it your own. Click here to begin editing. Click Here Add a Title Change the text and make it your own. Click here to begin editing. Click Here Recent Posts “He’s Just Not That Into You” Is a Phrase That Only Applies to SOME Men. Here’s why. He could be 100% into you. And guess what? You‘ll *still* get treated like sh*t. LIES MEN TELL snake_venom_nail_polish Patriarchal Projection: Why it’s Them and Definitely Not Us The patriarchy thrives on lies and projections. LIES MEN TELL TrashBagWitch My Cousin Designed A Dating App Experiment to Test Her Male Friends and EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. LIED. Contrary to what this scrote claimed, his mom does NOT have Alzheimers. LIES MEN TELL Admin Female Dating Strategy Backfooting: The Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You To Know About Reject men's labels of you DATING Podcast_Lilith The First Straws: Learning From Past Abuse The First Straw Is The Last Straw LEVEL UP Minerva Advertisement Top Forum Posts Join Forum Discussion Previous Next

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  • FDS Fundamentals | FemaleDatingStrategy

    The Fundamental Principles of Female Dating Strategy Female Dating Strategy is a collective of women who are interested ruthless self advocacy. In order to have a relationship that benefits women, you must first know how to assess situations to benefit ones self. Macro level, it's about addressing cultural misogny and other influences that push women to act against their own best interests. 1. Be a high value woman. A high value woman is a woman who doesn't revolve her life around men. She has her own career, hobbies, and a great social life that fulfills her emotional needs, so if she does welcome a man in her life, he better be amazing. A high value woman also doesn't romanticize men's true nature, therefore she's cautious around them and wants them to prove themselves to her before she gets emotionally attached. 2. If a man isn’t chasing you, he’s not that into you. A man’s role is to be the pursuer, the one to convince you that he’s the right man for you. As a woman, you don’t have to prove yourself to him. He either sees your value or he doesn’t. The only thing that’s within your control is working on becoming your best self. 3. Most straight men aren’t relationship material for you. The majority of the advances you receive from men are not of any value, because the majority of them are from men who only want to use you for sex. Many men are sex-driven, low effort, and entitled. However, there are also men out there who can be amazing boyfriends and husbands who know how to be a man and how to take care of you in all ways. 4. As women, we have the responsibility to be ruthless in our evaluation of men. We do ourselves and humanity no favours allowing men to exhibit sub-par behaviour and be rewarded with our attention. Thus, be ruthless in cutting off men who add no value to your life (happiness, emotional security, financial). 5. Don't have sex before commitment has been established (if you're looking for a relationship) or before he has demonstrated value and investment (if you're looking for FWBs). If a man is really into you and sees you as girlfriend material, he will commit to you in two months (or three months max). If you're looking to have a dependable FWB, you must still require investment from him so he provides you the respect and fun times that you want. 6.Generous men are a non-negotiable. While we believe in having your own career and making your own money, a man still has to add financial value to your life and make you feel like he can take care of you. This means not splitting the bill and not dating financially challenged men.

  • Self-Help Articles | FemaleDatingStrategy

    HEALING WEAKSPOTS: LINDA GRAHAM: THE TRIANGLE OF VICTIM, RESCUER, PERSECUTOR – WHAT IT IS AND HOW TO GET OUT WHAT ARE YOUR CORE WOUNDS THAT MADE YOU A GOOD NARCISSIST TARGET? WHAT TYPE OF SUPPLY WERE YOU? THERE IS SUCH A THING AS TOO MUCH EMPATHY THE 5 LOVE LOVE LANGUAGES OF AN EMPATH AND A NARCISSIST THE EMPATH, THE NARC AND THE BRUTAL REALITY OF THEIR TOXIC RELATIONSHIP THE SCIENCE BEHIND THE TOXIC RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN AN EMPATH AND A NARCISSIST DURING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A NARC YOU BECOME AN EXPERT AT LYING.....MAINLY TO YOURSELF THESE 7 TRAITS MAKE YOU VULNERABLE TO MANIPULATION 5 SHADY METHODS HE'LL USE TO MANIPULATE YOU TO HAVE SEX THE INVISIBLE WARZONE: 5 WAYS KIDS OF NARC PARENTS SELF-DESTRUCT IN ADULTHOOD SETTING HEALTHY BOUNDARIES ESCAPING THE CODEPENDENT - NARCISSIST TRAP YOU ARE REPLACEABLE TO A NARCISSIST: THEY MAKE ALL TARGETS FEEL SPECIAL HOW TO HELP A FRIEND WHO IS INVOLVED WITH A NARCISSIST GET SUPPORT AFTER ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS FROM THOSE WHO'VE BEEN THROUGH IT FREE RECOVERY COURSE RICHARD GRANNON LIFE COACH COURSES EMOTIONAL ABUSE BREAKTHROUGH COURSE CYBER SECURITY 101: PROTECTING YOURSELF ONLINE PASSWORD SECURITY: HOW TO STRENGTHEN YOUR PASSWORDS SO THEY'RE HARDER TO CRACK THE ENEMY AND HIS TACTICS WARNING SIGNS! DANGER AHEAD: HEARTLESS BITCHES INTERNATIONAL: THE BIG RED FLAG LIST- HOW TO TELL HE'S BAD NEWS THE MANIPULATOR FILES- HOW TO SPOT THE GUYS THAT FUCK WITH YOUR MIND AND HEART THE TALE OF JOE SMOOTH- SEE IF YOU CAN SPOT THE RED FLAGS RED FLAGS NARCISSISTS GIVE OFF ON A FIRST DATE 14 SIGNS OF PSYCHOLOGICAL AND EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION HOW TO SPOT AND STOP MANIPULATORS 7 PICK UP ARTIST TECHNIQUES TO WATCH OUT FOR PERSONALITY DISORDERS, ABUSIVE DYNAMICS AND COMMON MANIPULATION TACTICS: WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE AN 'AVOIDANT' MAN AND WHAT THAT ACTUALLY MEANS THE CYCLE OF ABUSE: IDEALISE, DEVALUE AND DISCARD NARCISSISTS AND THE ART OF FUTURE-FAKING HAVE YOU BEEN LOVE-BOMBED BY MR TOO-GOOD-TO-BE-TRUE? THE LATEST OBNOXIOUS DATING TREND IS TAKING OVER IS HE BLOWING HOT AND COLD OVER TEXT? HE MAY BE BREADCRUMBING YOU DOES HE MAKE YOU FEEL JEALOUS AND INSECURE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? HOW PSYCHOPATHS USE TRIANGULATION TO MAKE THEMSELVES 'SEEM' IN-DEMAND THE PUSH-PULL DYNAMIC OF A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH A NARCISSIST HOW TO SPOT IF YOU'RE BEING GASLIGHTED (ESPECIALLY BY A CHEAT) THE DARVO TACTIC OF MANIPULATIVE GASLIGHTERS: DENY, ATTACK, REVERSE VICTIM AND OFFENDER 10 WARNING SIDES OF WORD SALAD (CONVERSATIONS DESIGNED TO CONFUSE) HOW MEN USE MALE MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES AND 'THE FRIENDZONE' TO MANIPULATE YOU: IS MY LOVED ONE DEPRESSED OR MANIPULATIVE? 4 WAYS TO FIND OUT IF YOUR PARTNER IS USING DEPRESSION AS AN EXCUSE FOR CONTROLLING BEHAVIOUR THE ALT-RIGHT WEAPONISATION OF THE 'FRIEND-ZONE' WHAT IS NICE GUY SYNDROME? FIVE SIGNS A SELF PROCLAIMED NICE GUY ISN'T THAT NICE How to heal and protect yourself from manipulators THE DEFENCE

  • Dating books | FemaleDatingStrategy

    In-Depth Learning: Change Your Dating Life Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl―A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship ||Sherry Argov Why Men Marry Bitches || Sherry Argov All The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right || Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider Not Your Mother's Rules: The New Secrets for Dating || Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider The Art of Seduction || Robert Greene The Power of the Pussy: How to Get What You Want From Men: Love, Respect, Commitment and More! || Kara King He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys || Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo Getting to 'I Do': The Secret to Doing Relationships Right! || Patricia Allen and Sandra Harmon It's Just A Fucking Date || Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex || Sheila Wray Gregoire Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment || Amir Levine How to Break Your Addiction to a Person || Howard Halpern Women Who Love Too Much | | Robin Norwood Intimate Relationships || Rowland Miller Conscious Loving || Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks How to Love a Woman || Thich Nhat Hanh Feeling Good Together || David Burns How To Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved || M.A. Sandra L. Brown Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life || Tracy Schorn How to Marry the Rich || Ginie Sayles F*CK Him!: Nice Girls Always Finish Single || Brian Nox Become Your Own Matchmaker || Patti Stanger The Hite Report on Female Sexuality || Shere Hite

  • Quotes | FemaleDatingStrategy

    Inspiring quotes fixing the broken links "The world of humanity has two wings—one is women and the other men. Not until both wings are equally developed can the bird fly. Should one wing remain weak, flight is impossible. Not until the world of women becomes equal to the world of men in the acquisition of virtues and perfections, can success and prosperity be attained as they ought to be" - ABDU'L BAHA don't be a doormat "I myself have never been able to find out precisely what a feminist is. I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate myself from a door mat." - REBECCA WEST.

  • Resources | FemaleDatingStrategy

    Resources Below is a list of FDS approved media resources that we believe will help you along your journey DATING BOOKS View SELF-HELP ARTICLES View FDS PLAYLIST View SELF-HELP BOOKS View HELPLINE DIRECTORY View PODCASTS View YOUTUBERS View QUOTES View FDS IN THE MEDIA View FILMS AND DOCS View WELL-BEING View FDS LEVEL UP View

  • Podcasts | FemaleDatingStrategy

    Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Reaux, Savannah, and Lilith on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS. Support On Patreon! What happens when a Conservative, Moderate, and Democratic Socialist come together to ruthlessly strategize how to push female interests to the top-spot of their political parties? In this official spinoff of the popular podcast, The Female Dating Strategy, Reaux, Lilith, and Elle plot to reshape the political landscape to women’s benefit (and drag their respective political parties for filth for their failures). We poke through the male-crafted narratives on both sides to design our own common political ground to the benefit of ALL women. Oh yes, we’re breaking the political binary and proud of it! Female First, Female Forward. Politically Non-Binary. Support On Patreon! Follow our hosts on twitter! Savannah Reaux Lilith Elle Want to be on our podcast or like our hosts to visit yours? Send us a pitch at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

  • Finance | FemaleDatingStrategy

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  • Sex | FemaleDatingStrategy

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  • About | FemaleDatingStrategy

    About What is Female Dating Strategy (aka FDS)? What is the Goal of FDS? What is your Methodology? Where should I start learning? What is Female Dating Strategy (aka FDS)? We are a collective of women from all walks of life committed to developing, creating, and implementing strategies to take control of our lives and narratives and live a life of true empowerment. What is the Goal of FDS? FDS' goal is to deconstruct toxic and self sabotaging cultural narratives that inhibit women from living their best lives and entering relationships that truly benefit them. We believe in promoting self advocacy, discarding victim narratives, and serving ourselves and future children. What is your Methodology? Simple, maximum female benefit. We seek to locate and define current cultural problems in dating and relationships and create concrete, actionable strategies to maximize our happiness and health while minimizing overall risk. We believe the collective mind is stronger than the individual, and that dating strategy is best gleaned from the real experiences of women around the world. We center our methods in brutal realism about men and our current cultural climate, not aspirational (but often impractical) ideology. Each of our recommended strategies is weighed by overall risk vs reward based on real world lived experience and available data to recommend the best course of action. 6 Core Principles 01 bE a hIGH vALUE wOMAN A high value woman is a woman who doesn't revolve her life around men. She has her own career, hobbies, and a great social life that fulfills her emotional needs, so if she does welcome a man in her life, he better be amazing. A high value woman also doesn't romanticize men's true nature, therefore she's cautious around them and wants them to prove themselves to her before she gets emotionally attached. 03 mOST mEN ARE NOT OF VALUE TO YOU The majority of the advances you receive from men are not of any value, because the majority of them are from men who only want to use you for sex. Many men are sex-driven, low effort, and entitled. However, there are also men out there who can be amazing boyfriends and husbands who know how to be a man and how to take care of you in all ways. 05 MAKE HIM INVEST BEFORE SEX Don't have sex before commitment has been established (if you're looking for a relationship) or before he has demonstrated value and investment (if you're looking for FWBs). If a man is really into you and sees you as girlfriend material, he will commit to you in two months (or three months max). If you're looking to have a dependable FWB, you must still require investment from him so he provides you the respect and fun times that you want. 02 lET MEN CHASE YOU A man’s role is to be the pursuer, the one to convince you that he’s the right man for you. As a woman, you don’t have to prove yourself to him. He either sees your value or he doesn’t. The only thing that’s within your control is working on becoming your best self. 04 RUTHLESSLY EVALUATE MEN We do ourselves and humanity no favors allowing men to exhibit subpar behavior and being rewarded with our attention. Thus, be ruthless in cutting off men who add no value to your life (happiness, emotional security, financial). 06 GENEROUS MEN ARE NON-NEGOTIABLE While we believe in having your own career and making your own money, a man still has to add financial value to your life and make you feel like he can take care of you. This means not splitting the bill and not dating financially challenged men.

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