Hello ladies,
I got thrown for a loop yesterday and I am looking to try understand what might have happened to have a better response in future.
Yesterday I was walking up a street and talking with my boyfriend, holding hands on our way to meet people. A creep I used to kind of work with (he rented out a room in the shop I used to work in) walked up to us, said 'Madam' and thrust a leaflet at me. Caught off-guard as I was talking, I didn't look at him when I took the leaflet and we walked off. Now I am kicking myself as I never wanted the leaflet and wish I would have walked off instead.
I am trying to understand why he approached, as I have walked up this street before in the past and he has ignored me (he might not have recognised me as I look different - been a few years). He used to be interested years ago but I don't understand why he would walk up to me and try to passively aggressively get attention from me after years.
I have never had an ex circle back to me for attention before, so I have no strategies on how to deal with someone disappearing and then coming back. Do you have any tips on what I could do in future?
Best thing is do what you did, walk past like you have no idea who or what he is to you. He is not in your life, so he does not deserve to take space in it.
What was the leaflet about? Why did he want you to have it?