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I was recently hanging out with my friend after a long time and she was trying to create drama, out of nothing, I was busy doing my work and till then she was taking pictures, since i was busy and couldn’t take some clicks, i proceeded to take em afterwards, now she hits me with a comment “ do you think, your pictures are even coming out nice?” I was shocked, I looked at her and told her to shut the fuck up, and since the past few days, idk why but she keeps taking passive aggressive digs at me, for no fucking reason.
She was never like this before, she was always supportive, but now she’s always making comments on either my body or hers, and honestly i don’t even want to confront her, cause i don’t think, it’s worth the trouble anymore.
And honestly it’s not even like, is there anything that’s bothering her, she’s well emotionally equipped to know that, feeling crappy is no reason to put it on others.
Ladies, any thoughts? it’s so odd seeing someone who was so supportive, just giving out girl on girl hate???
Why are you allowing this chick to neg you? It doesn't really matter why she is doing it, the question at this point should be why you are accepting it.
The thing about negging and emotional abuse like this is that eventually it WILL affect you the longer you stick around. It's like a slow drip of poison into your system until finally they've trained you to no longer like yourself. That is their goal in doing this, and no matter how head strong you are now, it will work on you. It works on anyone who stays. That's why FDS says RUN when you see this type of shit. It is insidious and dangerous.
It's death by a thousand papercuts. I'd drop her as a friend so quick it would make her head spin. I've certainly learned my lesson about negging and insults at this point. Sis, run. The first time someone disrespects you like that should always be their very last.
If you don't want to confront her, don't.
Give her space. Lots of space. Stop responding to her. If she doesn't care to better the situation proactively, then neither do you. If she doesn't care to be a good friend, neither do you.
I don't know why she's acting this way. Neither do you. And if she's as immature as she sounds, neither does she. Let her deal with her issues on her own.
More context needed. How long have you known this friend? Where were you hanging out? Do you think there are any reasons to cause her change of behavior?