long story short when i was about 20 (and this is why i don't get too friendly with males like that anymore), i used to go to this one kava bar and we used to have small talk but then he always aired out his frustrations about his ex (which now ik is a 🚩). I used to air my frustrations about dating and how all guys wanted to do is fuck (which is also something i should've done). this went on for months and btw he's 33 and i was 20 at the time. One day he invited me over to smoke at this place (dusty behavior ik), and we did and he insisted on having sex and cuddling and i was really high and i really didn't want to do that and he knew but i still gave into it out of fear of what would happen. After that (since when men get what they want or don't get what they want the just disguard you), he unfollowed me on ig and i removed him off of snap. This was probably around may or april. Haven't seen him since and i started going to a different place now and he's started to come here. This is a spot i like a lot but honestly i'm gonna have to go somewhere else. my gym is in this area tho. I had to learn the hard way to stop having sympathy for men and their poor chocies and poor behaviors. they never return the favor for you and also men are predatory for the most part and when yorue vulnerable, they use that to get in your pants. Any advice ?