I find it impossible to know when a man is genuine. Players, bad boys, narcissists and other twisted types of men all behave the same way genuine men do. They can pretend they're quality guys for long periods of time so how can women be sure that a man is truly good quality?
How can we be sure we're not driving away good men? Of course, it's not our fault when we're wary of men because men are problematic and most times, bring chaos our way which is why women can be hesitant to give men a chance.