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Okay so let me try my best to explain this.
Im a freshmen in college, and I have just gone on a second date with a guy who seems really sweet, and hes the total opposite of nvm fratboys, and bro type guys.
But the thing is he is super flamboyant, and going on dates with him is kinda like hanging out with a gay friend, but it actually feels a lot better than what I have come to expect from lvm "masculine" guys.
We actually have common interest, and get along, and he fits in my friend group like one of the girls, but he has taken his femininity too far at some points, not in person, but on his instagram and tiktok there are videos of him crossdressing, and things of that nature.
I always thought that he was gay since he only had girl friends, and acted the way he did, but after we met he explained that he has no interest in men at all, and that he is 100% straight.
Is this a good or bad thing?
If it's weird to you then you'll be happier staying friends and not getting involved romantically. He sounds like a fun friend!
It isn’t bad, but if you aren’t into him it’s not good to be in a relationship with him. You deserve someone you’re into and he deserves someone who is into him.
He sounds like he could be a good friend ☺️ I personally would be bothered if my gaydar screamed at me, so I couldn’t date him. If he’s funny about getting friends oned, that’s on him.
Honestly, at this point, if I met a man who was acting very flamboyantly and crossdressing, I would worry that he is an autogynephile (or, at the very least, misogynistic). I'm not saying that is the case with your friend, but I would personally find it very difficult to consider a romantic relationship with someone who seems to parody femininity.
I wouldn’t be able to date someone like that but definitely sounds like he could be a friend
I would not personally be attracted to that but a friendship could be fun and rewarding.
It's not a bad thing, but it's okay for you to not be attracted to that. Never try to force yourself to feel attraction, it never ends well. I've deluded myself for upwards of a year and a half at some points in the past and it never gets better. I personally would not be attracted.
If you're into it go for it. If not, stay friends. I have friends like this minus the tiktoks and they really just are comfortable with themselves.
He seems like he would be a good friend.
As someone who is attracted to feminine guys- even I have accepted to these type of men do not come in straight. At best he's bi yet prefers men. Just give it time.