Ladies, it’s an erectile dysfunction one

It’s nice to be back after some time off wix 😎

Dating a 33 y/o man for a month or so. Strong start - he’s good looking plus a total gent to me and we started out as friends. Met him in my gym so all fit and healthy etc. likes a drink but nothing excessive.

But when we go to do the deed he loses his erection mid way through - sometimes during foreplay. To date he has never had an o* with me. He said it’s because he’s overthinking/ cares so much and wants to work on it. Of course we can and do do other things. But I’ll be honest, I find this a bit unusual in view of his fitness and I know this isn’t really to do with me.

He had a bereavement 4 months ago and I do wonder if this is playing a part. I asked if he was concerned about an unwanted pregnancy which he vehemently denied. I have been reassuring.

im only 33 myself and have been in relationships where the sex was sub par. I don’t want to go down that road again. and no, I don’t want to suggest blue tabs to a healthy 33 year old but I do feel like a bitch for getting turned off by this.

any advice would be welcome. Consensus is that it’s likely porn related which would be shit but not surprising.