Life isn't as black and white as the handbook. It should be possible to come here in good faith and get some feedback about the nuances of life given that the handbook is actually not applicable to every life situation.
People don't have to reply if they don't want to. Cutting women off for not religiously abiding or for questioning is pretty rubbish and a number of the responses were pretty close to moral purity policing FDS style. What exactly is the point of the forum if all the answers are in the handbook?