Do you think they're a good or bad distraction? I mean for example women who idealize k-pop singers, or actors, or book characters, or Instagram personalities... Someone who you'll never meet or maybe doesn't even exist. I think it's healthier than joining the apps, or idealizing a real existing man. As long as you don't really end up stalking them, wanting to be their gf... Just allowing the lovey dovey feelings in a safe environment , a man who won't hurt you (you don't even know him lol). Do you find the benefits too or it's better to avoid this, and if yes why? Thank you
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Having a little crush on an actor or something happens sometimes, and I think its fine. Just dont indulge it too much. Dont, like, actually fantasize about them. That's not healthy.
But I draw the line at fictional characters, and especially cartoon characters. Having crushes on cartoons is creepy.