Guys who think pissing me off is hilarious then act surprised when I snap. You mess with the bull you get the horns. I will note that once I lash out they stop, so far.
My brother is the worst when it comes to this. For him, the only thing that matters is the chest size of girls. Here's an example:
"Hey, remember X from fifth grade? She was super smart, and so nice to everyone. I saw on instagram that she just got her masters in engineering."
"Ah, yes, I remeber, she also had the biggest boobs in class."
And he does this with every.single.girl.he.knows. Except for me, luckily.
I snapped eventually and asked him If every girl he has encountered in his life is just a walking pair of boobs. My mom unfortunately defended him by saying "That's just how 14 year old boys are". Newsflash, he's not 14, he's 27, yet still acts like a teenager.
And unfortunately, he's not the only guy I know who behaves like that. A woman could come up with an universal cure for cancer, and men would probably still talk about how much of a rack she does/doesn't have.
This couldn't be more true. I spent years stuffing myself into painful minimizer bras in the hopes that guys would pay attention to something besides my boobs and maybe have an actual conversation with me but even that was no help. They don't care about us at all, they just want our bodies.
@Blossom_Dawn It's just so disheartening, isn't it? I am on the opposite end of the spectrum, where everything I do or say is dismissed because I am flat chested. Like... shut up, look me in the eyes, and listen to what I say and do. To be judged and valued for something you have no direct control over is so frustrating, yet you are the evil one for calling them out on their vanity.
@Kintsugi It really is miserable. That's why women must love and support each other no matter what. We'll never get any help or respect from men. It's really their loss. There's so much more to us than our bodies but they'll never experience that because they're so shallow. Stay strong and beautiful!
If a man mentions anything about about the relevance of dick size for sex. The first that comes to my mind is "He has a small dick, is horrible in bed and blames it on women". Instant turn off that can't be recovered.
Men who think that every woman wants to give them an orgasm. Dude, reality isn't a 3-D porn site...get a handle on something other than your own penis!
Guys who think pissing me off is hilarious then act surprised when I snap. You mess with the bull you get the horns. I will note that once I lash out they stop, so far.
"You mess with the bull you get the horns" This is such a keeper @Ophelia!
On a more superficial level,
Almost any guy who uses minoxidil
It may seem weird for all of you, but for me it's worshipping Elon Musk.
Guys who are totally obsessed with sports but claim to be straight. It just seems odd that they happily spend hours just staring at muscular men.
Guys who reduce women to their body parts.
My brother is the worst when it comes to this. For him, the only thing that matters is the chest size of girls. Here's an example:
"Hey, remember X from fifth grade? She was super smart, and so nice to everyone. I saw on instagram that she just got her masters in engineering."
"Ah, yes, I remeber, she also had the biggest boobs in class."
And he does this with every.single.girl.he.knows. Except for me, luckily.
I snapped eventually and asked him If every girl he has encountered in his life is just a walking pair of boobs. My mom unfortunately defended him by saying "That's just how 14 year old boys are". Newsflash, he's not 14, he's 27, yet still acts like a teenager.
And unfortunately, he's not the only guy I know who behaves like that. A woman could come up with an universal cure for cancer, and men would probably still talk about how much of a rack she does/doesn't have.
This couldn't be more true. I spent years stuffing myself into painful minimizer bras in the hopes that guys would pay attention to something besides my boobs and maybe have an actual conversation with me but even that was no help. They don't care about us at all, they just want our bodies.
@Blossom_Dawn It's just so disheartening, isn't it? I am on the opposite end of the spectrum, where everything I do or say is dismissed because I am flat chested. Like... shut up, look me in the eyes, and listen to what I say and do. To be judged and valued for something you have no direct control over is so frustrating, yet you are the evil one for calling them out on their vanity.
@Kintsugi It really is miserable. That's why women must love and support each other no matter what. We'll never get any help or respect from men. It's really their loss. There's so much more to us than our bodies but they'll never experience that because they're so shallow. Stay strong and beautiful!
If a man mentions anything about about the relevance of dick size for sex. The first that comes to my mind is "He has a small dick, is horrible in bed and blames it on women". Instant turn off that can't be recovered.
Men who think that every woman wants to give them an orgasm. Dude, reality isn't a 3-D porn site...get a handle on something other than your own penis!