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I've recently been noticing that many men seem to like being low value, like they see no point in changing for the better.
I recently told a male "friend" that he would attract more women and have a better dating life overall if he stopped following thirst traps on social media and quit porn but he either doesn't believe me or he does believe me and just wants to be a loser.
Any other women encounter men in their lives who seem to be stuck in this lower phase with no plans to change?
Because they’re lazy and entitled, and for centuries society enabled this behaviour because women were financially dependent on them. But the tables are turning, women are becoming financially independent and have the choice of choosing attractive men (they detest this btw), and low value men would rather be lazy sacks of shit than do better.
They're lazy. These are the types of men who are also lazy at work despite getting paid.
A lot of LVM also don't see themselves as a problem so they don't see the urge to improve themselves. To them, women only want "wealthy chads" so they don't see anything wrong with only wanting "stacies".
There are also a lot of pick mes who will throw themselves at LVM so LVM have little pressure to improve.
There are two reasons as to why. First one is they don't have consequences. If a man is low value, he is like one of the guys. He cheats? He abuses a women? He doesn't lose friends, family looks the other way, he keeps his job or career or whatever he's doing, and social status remains among the filth. No big deal.
The other reason, and this is something that they don't even consciously do, it helps the others in the cesspool of men. Because if he is low value, and most other men are low value...then why would a woman dump him im hopes of someone better when she knows the next one is only going to be yet another disappointment.
And I feel the younger ones are in full practice becoming the best scrotes they could be (who can do the most harm to the most women) and the older ones are the end of the book who have been yeeted out as hard as possible back into the waters by the women who have just had enough of their degenerate behavior.
They don't care that we can now live without them. They don't want a real woman anyway when they have a plethora of them online and never have to put any effort into it and never have to take a good honest inventory and look into the mirror or change to be better.
I imagine that it's because being low value is easy, improving yourself in order to become high value is hard.
What you will find if you had the search history in Google alone is most (I mean almost all) will be chock full of porn, sports, automobile info, and then basic mundane videos or shorts that are nothing more than sexist raunchy 80s comedy movies type nonsense. You will not find anything related to how to improve themselves emotionally/relationship wise or searches that have insights into parenting or marriage, or better understanding women and their needs.
You will find history with topics such as how to stay hard longer, peen growth, and anything revolving around their enjoyment of sex...but nothing about a woman's.
You may find a few with titles that sound like interest in women's needs and feelings, but then read into the article and it's written by some scrote covertly coaching them how to obtain sex as the real intent.
I wonder what it will take to make them realize birth rates, marriages, or even finding women who will want to share life with them are all on the decline and these things are important as well.
As Lundy Bancroft explains, men dont hate women because of bad experiences with women, just like white supremacy or racism isnt because of bad experiences with other races...its because they are taught to hate women from other men. Racists are taught to hate other races by those in their own.
Being low value to women means nothing, because they are still considered high value to other men.
I agree with all other comments! They don't need a reason to step it up because society always bends to them. But my question is why are you giving this very obvious scrote free advice and life/dating coaching? He would have to pay for a dating coach in the real world for that advice if you weren't giving it up for free. Let him rot and figure it out on his own, but trust me he won't because if he wanted to be any different, he would have already implemented any changes he intended to follow.
Don't be this or any dude's free therapist or life coach... they are relying on this kindness from women in the world, moreso just for your attention than for any reason to actually change. IE: This guy is wasting your time and energy and enjoying the presence of an amazing, caring woman who wants to "help him." Wtf?
FDS says to let their red flags fly so women have clear warnings. Don't train these guys to hide their scrotery to get more women...