Decided to use Bumble BFF to try and meet new female friends. However, a woman I don't know who matched with me has really upset me. She sent me a message saying that I sounded like a positive person and she needs a friend to hype her up (as I put in my profile that I'd like a friendship where we can be each others cheerleaders in life). She sent me her number and I sent her a message saying who I was, hi and how are you?
The reply I get back is:
'Hello, yeah im good thanks. I was reading ur profile and u sound like uve been through some stuff. Im looking 4 the same as u, friends that want u to do well in life x'
Now I only put I was divorced, a single mum and I'm working on my career! Nothing negative about my life. My pics are decent and have me smiling so nothing to suggest I have been through the ringer (I don't think).
BUT SERIOUSLY!!! I found this sooo rude to assume when she's never spoke to or even met me! Yes it might be true I've been through a lot but still it's made me feel that other people may assume this about me also! Also I noticed it seems to be all about her needs already. Me to hype her up, not asking how I am and trying to put me down!
Call me sensitive or maybe she's lack social skills but I would never say something like that!
Anyhoo...I've blocked her now without explanation 👋
I feel like with all the bad spelling, it's possible she might be some kind of catfish. Also yeah it is kind of fucking rude to say someone you barely know has "been through it". I'd be annoyed too.