Can we talk about "nice girls?"

So, there's a type of woman who is EXTREMELY male-identified, but knows she's female.

So, what she does, is she amplifies her feminine traits. Oftentimes, the toxic ones.

The woman who was just "too feminine and dainty" to stop her husband from fucking her teen girls, and shit like that. Or worse, the one who parentifies herself, while simultaneously hurting the "children" around her. This includes the males.

The "I am mother earth" types who let men get away with anything, and then take absolutely no accountability when other women get hurt.

As long as they are using their hyper feminine persona, they can get away with passively, or even actively abusing other women.

I know a chick who watches her abusive boyfriend harass other women (most of whom are sick of him), but he goes back to her, and she acts like he's a prize, so he never gets the message.

Then, she expects other women to listen to her complain about him, when she JUST ENABLED him.

This is toxic femininity.

She thinks she's better than other women, too.

So do a lot of these types. I've been guilty of similar myself, to a lesser degree.

One way to deal with chicks like this, is to play their game, so they see how stupid it looks. Pretend to be so offended by anything they say, and see how quick males rush to your aid.

Pretend to be helpless, like you need men, so she can't beat you to it.

Act like you've never done anything mean, and just beat them at their own game if you have to.

Males who talk about toxic femininity don't actually know what it is. It's not like masculinity. It's not going to work.

It's toxic complacency and co dependency, while ultimately, swaying the way things turn out for other women (and enabled men) by acting innocent.