The reason society hates single women is PROJECTION. Single men, especially single OLDER men, are a societal problem. There is no species of animal where adding males helps things or reduces violence, in contrast to when violent chimpanzee leaders die, and things are peaceful in the troupe for some years. Divorced men need to be stigmatized, and divorced women, unless they are CLEARLY the problem, with drug abuse/cheating (it's almost always the man) need to be assisted in truly leaving. Men should be uncomfortable being consumers who leech off of women. Capitalism exists because MEN have no problem consuming porn, non vegetarian/vegan food, and shit that comes from kids enslaved in africa. Most movements to blockade directly harmful corporations are female-led and majority female involved. Men cannot exist peacefully with damn near anything. That's why even monks end up raping shit and going insane. That's why ancient religions said women are basically in a state of nirvana. Judaism said women don't NEED to study. Female societies don't really even need laws. The average woman should be looking at the average man with contempt and suspicion, because that is what man has wrought for himself. We should be making them uncomfortable to be alive and predatory in OUR societies that we birth. Btw, men KNOW this. If you tell a man this, that men are violent, and should be ostracized by society, he'll pretend like you're crazy because they think we're stupid, because we kind of are about them. But if you get down to it, ALL societies KNEW what men WERE. They created fake male gods to keep men in LINE, not because divinity is actually even male. Women need to stop projecting good qualities onto men, like we're living in a safe Club Penguin setup. We're living in a Hell made by them, and all men intutively understand that men are worth LESS than women at all ages, and that MOST are bad for us. They KNOW these things, and they think we are STUPID for not acting accordingly. :/
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Yes. This is why, in my older age, I've come to realize that thinking HVM exist to date is a bit silly. It's not that I don't think HVM exist- they do, I know a few. I just think HVM tend to remove themselves from the dating pool altogether because (1) in order to become a HVM, men have to transcend their base gross male nature for a majority of their life, which requires either intense abstract study or 100% investment in some project that is not "chasing p*ssy," and (2) a man who is truly HV will understand he can never contribute to a woman what a woman can contribute to him and, will rightly apprehend his pointlessness in that regard and maybe even feel shame and, as a result, will keep to himself and his life projects that keep him busy and unwavering in his journey to remain away from baseness. I simply think men have a choice: to become HV, which is an intense, lifelong struggle to dissociate from his true nature (and has no observable benefits in a superficial, consumerist world like ours today) or to give in to the impulses of his true nature. A man trying to dissociate from base male nature will most likely understand sexual relationships with women will not get him there.
Unfortunately, most HVW believe a HVM is more "like" a woman with regards to relationships, not understanding that relationships- romantic or otherwise- is a FEMALE domain. A HVM doesn't metaphorically "turn into" someone who has female traits. A HVM is a man just going in an upward direction away from maleness. Male and female aren't two sides of a spectrum. Rather, they are just two totally distinct entities.
Back when I had more pickme tendencies I was talking to a guy friend who was saying that most men are innately gross and violent and I was telling him I didn’t believe that’s the case. Then he brought up examples of other species where males act in absolutely disgusting ways. I thought it was weird that he would say this about his sex but in retrospect I really respect the honesty. And all the good guys I’ve met are the ones that admit that men are overall disgusting.
You’re right, men know this about themselves.
My mom asked me recently if I had anything good to say about men...I said "Do you?". She said I have met some good men.
Look, I know good men exist, but they're rare.