I've been dating a woman for a few weeks.
She wants me to move in - I think it's way too early.
She goes back and forth with me a lot - I'm completely done having men in my life for now. She wants male attention.
She has a few pickmes tendencies that really affect how I get treated by our mutuals.
I want to give her a chance to really be pro-female, but since I'm a woman, I feel like she's more willing to throw me under buses than she would be with a man.
It's better than dating a man emotionally, but this just isn't what I need.
Advice?
Many strategies in FDS can be applied into same sex relationship. Don't date someone you wish to change.
Also, hopefully I don't sound mean, considering your posts I think a good therapist can help.
Leave her. I dated a woman and ended up in a similar situation mistakenly thinking that just because we shared the trait of being female, we would have a mutual understanding about things. Just like if you were dating men, incompatibility in mindset and belief simply means it won’t work. There are women out there who will have beliefs and behavior that aligns very well with your standards. My best friend is in a 3 year relationship with a woman and they’re almost the same person. They rarely disagree and their life is incredibly peaceful and productive. They lived together after only two months of dating, so the timeline is really up to you. With the right woman, things can move very quickly and not feel inappropriate at all. It might hurt to split initially, but you’ll realize looking back that it would not have worked and you would’ve just subjucted yourself to unhappiness. Your current partner probably has somebody out there’s who’s more compatible too, so if it helps you, just think about how you’ll both be able to be happier in different situations. Just don’t give up hope that someone out there will meet your standards, expectations, and respect your boundaries.
I honestly think these bizarre posts have no place here. This is also kind of homophonic because you're assuming lesbians/gays hate men/women. YOU ARE WRONG.
Gay men worship women and lesbians even have male beat friends sometimes. You're looking for the 4b movement taking advantage of lesbian people is not going to get you far in life.
Wtf are you talking about? She's your girlfriend but she wants male attention???
Hey Brooke, are you sexually attracted to women?