trigger warning - uncomfortable sexual topic
https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/15difo5/he_asked_for_divorce_because_i_wont_do_anal_sex/
So, guys looking for tradwives almost always watch porn, want to cheat, AND want to bring what they're doing outside the house INTO the house.
Lots of women do anal, so if he cheats (most men eventually will) even if he doesn't leave, he'll want blowjobs and anal.
This is one of the many reasons FDS isn't into quickly securing marriage (but also not waiting).
You will do things in a marriage that you never thought someone who "loves" you would ask for in order to keep shit together.
And since he will have been fucking experienced women on the side, if/when he cheats, he will NOT have the sense to be gentle with you.
Another reason to look for virginal men as well, or men who are similar to you.
Meh, the best way to vet against LV men is to immediately block and delete any man looking for a woman to have gay sex with. Blow jobs aren’t normal, nor is anal sex. She’s upset her gay husband is leaving her after a decade and it makes sense. Gay men using straight women to make families and then abandoning them is quite common. It’s unfortunate so many horrible men are still seeking to use and abuse women like this in 2024. Gay marriage and sex is legal! These men should just go be with men. Like, all the comments being like, “what middle aged man thinks women wants to be fucked in the ass?” Lol. NONE! He doesn’t want women. 🤣 Like, if he just wanted to fuck women anally he’d have bought a prostitue. He’s just gay.
“I can’t live without anal sex!” Pfft. What a waste of space. I hope she rinses him in the divorce.
"You will do things in a marriage that you never thought someone who "loves" you would ask for in order to keep shit together."
This is why FDS tells us to not become dependent on men. So that if a man ask you to do something you don't want for his benefit, you have the option to kick him out of your life.
"Another reason to look for virginal men as well, or men who are similar to you." --- Virginal men are no safeguard at all. They are porn sick because porn is the only sexual "interaction" they're getting. I would say they're even more perverted and more porn sick than the average guy because the longer you consume porn, the more repulsive and deranged your "preferences" become. And you can rest assured they will come out with their perverted porn requests sooner or later (I've experienced it twice). Imo the "safest" men (if there is such a thing at all) would be men who've been in 1 or 2 long term, committed relationships.
Men who seek trad wives seem like the epitome of the madonna whore complex