trigger warning - uncomfortable sexual topic
https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/15difo5/he_asked_for_divorce_because_i_wont_do_anal_sex/
So, guys looking for tradwives almost always watch porn, want to cheat, AND want to bring what they're doing outside the house INTO the house.
Lots of women do anal, so if he cheats (most men eventually will) even if he doesn't leave, he'll want blowjobs and anal.
This is one of the many reasons FDS isn't into quickly securing marriage (but also not waiting).
You will do things in a marriage that you never thought someone who "loves" you would ask for in order to keep shit together.
And since he will have been fucking experienced women on the side, if/when he cheats, he will NOT have the sense to be gentle with you.
Another reason to look for virginal men as well, or men who are similar to you.
"Another reason to look for virginal men as well, or men who are similar to you." --- Virginal men are no safeguard at all. They are porn sick because porn is the only sexual "interaction" they're getting. I would say they're even more perverted and more porn sick than the average guy because the longer you consume porn, the more repulsive and deranged your "preferences" become. And you can rest assured they will come out with their perverted porn requests sooner or later (I've experienced it twice). Imo the "safest" men (if there is such a thing at all) would be men who've been in 1 or 2 long term, committed relationships.