U ever think about the fact that women can potentially gestate/raise children without their father even being aware of their existence or kinship with him, but men can't really have kids in their life at all in any way shape or form (aside from maybe extended family member's) without a woman's agreement or cooperation?
Like if the average woman wants to be a mother desperately enough, all she really has to do to achieve it (if she doesn't give a shit about the long term consequences) is to have unprotected sex with the tinder hookup she lands within five minutes of making a dating profile. That's literally it.
Meanwhile if a man wants a child, he not only needs to put in actual effort to seduce a woman AND persuade her to remain faithful to him and only him (if he wants the kid to have his DNA), but he also needs to convince/stay on good terms with her long enough to carry the pregnancy to term without changing her mind and getting an abortion. He also needs to entrust the childs survival to her during the early years of his/her life as she'll be the one producing the breast milk it needs to survive to toddlerhood.
Like even in the cases of divorced single dads, they still needed the mom to like them enough at one point to carry their kid to term, even if she doesn't anymore (and even then, she's usually involved in the kids life to whatever degree the courts will allow and if daddy's a widower, more often than not, he usually has a shit ton of female relatives/friends waiting on standby to "help" with all the heavy lifting when it comes to the childcare.
Like men can't even adopt without having a woman in their life because no reputable agency is going to commit the safeguarding violation of leaving a child alone with a single man lol.
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Very good points.
I love this post so much, it’s WOMB envy. That’s all it, they know they aren’t valuable to nature and to society at large. That’s why they need to seek thàt value from Women.
Awesome post.