I have a guy who says I've helped him out of porn addiction and he claims he hasn't watched it in over a year, and I do believe him. My issue is that I am not OK with him checking out other women and he is the type of guy who used to highly sexualize women he saw at work, at restaurants, or on the bus. Pretty much anywhere he went. He says after talking to me (we have been dating over a year), he has changed his mindset and is disgusted with how he used to be. He says he sees women merely as people now and can discern when they are attractive but knows that it doesn't concern him as a taken man. The problem is that I still feel like I catch him looking at other women sometimes when he thinks I'm not looking. (I have a sixth sense for this.) I feel absolutely crazy and like I always have to have my head on a swivel. But. Don't we all look at other people? I notice people every day but I never take the time to stare or consider why or why not they are attractive to me.
I think just knowing the way he used to look at other women has me scared that he is still thinking that way.