Lately, I've been pointing out to my mother how women are constantly screwed over by men in various ways. She usually lukewarm agrees. If there is ever a case of a woman and man involved in some case involving a child, she will 100% always blame the mother. Hell, even with animals- she blames the mother-animal and say they were useless or some variation of that. Or she'll shame women being vocal about abuse, being promiscuousness, anything really.
No matter where in life, tv, or media shows a woman facing consequences for a mistake usually non-harmful mistakes, my mom always seems to gleefully point out to me "SEE even women do x y and z!" Like for example we saw on tv court case of a woman catfishing a man to see her cause she wanted to seduce him for money. No one got hurt, just the man was too blinded by his horniness and wasted money on a trip to see a woman that did not share her picture with him and did not mention her having 3 kids. The case was thrown out, the woman has 3 kids, the man was just angry that the woman was not a supermodel.
Lately it seems like my mom likes pointing out all these "awful" things women do to men, to ME as if she is trying to prove something to me. Normally, I don't really care what my mom says, but I don't like knowing how she's usually narcissistic about it and uses these situations against me when I make decisions for myself.
I've put up way too many times letting men or my brothers talk to me a certain way only for my mom to yell at me like I should be letting or being agreeable. So I never take her advices for years now. What I don't like is the low quality of conversations with her always seem to revolve around "poor men" "woman is evil" "here's some advice <advice then screws me over>".
And when I reject her conversations, suddenly I'm the bad one. I never said I'm perfect or everyone man or woman is perfect, but men are usually the bad ones and that's widely becoming more known. She just doesn't like that it also includes my brothers in that demographic aka her sons.