I agree with that too, lonely people are like that because of the person that stares back at them in the mirror. But men rather blame women than themselves.
This. Most people I've had good relations with and got along well were middle-aged women (40-60). They're so just much wiser and more straightforward, don't take shit from anyone, and many of them told me they're much happier now than in their youth. Shit, even one of my dogs who's a 10-year old female (so quite old) is just as, if not more cheery and active as when she was young. In the meantime, old men are bitter because they're balding and their dick doesn't work, they're fat and most likely have an alcohol problem. And everyday they look in the mirror and tell themselves an age old cope: "M-Men age like fine wine!!"
Yet the media favors the old scrotes for some reason.. I wonder why.
Men age like wine because they have women to suck them dry. Without women they wouldn't have the time or resources to keep themselves groomed. Men also like to moan that single fathers who raise children alone do it better, that's a lie because single fathers still use the help of their own mother and sisters to do the child rearing, just look at that Ronaldo idiot, he claims his son doesn't need a mother while his son is being raised by his grandmother and forever girlfriend.
Boo fuckity hoo, Men reap what they sow, they believe the delusion that they have options and when that bubble pops they want to contact their first wives or forever girlfriend they neglected as soon as little miss gold digger leaves them.
I do not feel sorry for lonely men, because these lonely men have no problem hitting on me because they don't want to stay alone. But they would never date a woman around their age like he's 70 and he is with a hot 60 year old, nope they want young flesh and I refuse to even entertain these ugly trolls with a body of a melted candle.
My own father wonders why nobody was there when he had to go to the hospital for a condition he caused himself.. well maybe because you are a narc and a lousy father.
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You mean - your p*rn and your vidJa GaMeS won't show up comforting you when you lie in the hospital dying? What about your Star Wars toy collection?
Or the gold digger (finally affordable after turning 40) he left his children and his wife for because he wanted to feel YoUnG aGaIN?! How does that add up? Shame on women! /s
"let's learn to take care of our fathers". How about our fathers stop being worth less than actual piles of shit? Even manure can be used to grow something. Men on the other hand are as useful as a parasite. Fuck them. My dad ruined my childhood and continues play victim, sometimes slandering me and my mom in the process.
If he dies alone, that's his fault. He can call his new racist family who dont even like him for help.
Mine antagonized his neigbors and family members and now that he recovered from an illness he wants to reach out to family members he mistreated and also was a lot nicer to me because when the delusional bubble pops that men have all the options they become like meek little dogs with a tail between their legs.
Same with Sylverster Stalone, all of the sudden he wants to be a father for his daughters while he neglected them for his film career. Bastard knows that being 70 years old is like standing with one leg in the grave since most women outlive men. His money won't save him from dying alone so he had no choice but to act like he cares.
When my father was dying, myself and my siblings visited him in the hospital every day or nearly every day for those couple weeks. When he came home we were by his side for his final few days. He died surrounded by us. Because he had shown up for us and fostered a relationship with us into our adulthoods.
Now an uncle of mine is dying. Know who's there for him? Nobody. He has always been about take, take, take. When his own father died he only contacted my mom to pester her about what money might be left for him. He isn't the one who cleaned out his fathers home and put it up for sale, took care of him when he was dying or made arrangements when he did die. his siblings and even people not related to him helped with that.
When my mom lost her house, he came around to squat in there and tear out the copper wires. I have other family members like him who nobody's gonna be there to care for them, because they only ever showed up to take.
My guess is that more men burn their bridges than women do.
Men really have the audacity to act like they didn't bring this upon themselves. Your actions have consequences. If you act like an asshole, you can't be surprised that no one cares about you. You have to give love first in order to recieve any. I know for a fact this guy is bitter, close-minded, and seeking validation because he only bothers to reply to the tweets reaffirming his deeply-flawed narrative. Deep down, he knows he is wrong or else why woudn't he be able to come up with any rebutttal to all the women rightfully chewing him out on his bs?
I love how they act like you can't be a good father or build a good relationship with your spouse, children and grandchildren while working full-time. That's utter bullshit. Millions of working mothers and fathers manage that just fine because they simply care, make an effort and take the time.
Good men who cared and built healthy, loving relationships and friendships during their life don't die alone. Even if they never had any children of their own.
A great-uncle of mine never had children because he and his wife couldn't have any. He was still a good man and helped raise and support all of his nieces and nephews (and their children) . His wife died a few years before he did but you bet that he didn't die alone and without caretakers because all the people he had loved and supported during his life showed up for him. All of his nieces and nephews, surviving siblings and cousins, grand-nieces and grand-nephews, friends, neighbors etc. were happy to help him.
Reminds me of a SheraSeven clip I saw a while back, she is a former mortician
It's such a boy math meme: men realising a pattern of men dying alone because those men didnt do shit for their families, but shifting the blame onto women 🤣
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I had an uncle who died alone. He lived with my grandmother when she was alive, under the pretext of being her "caregiver" but in reality, he was living there rent-free and my grandmother was paying all the bills and waiting on him hand and foot. When my grandmother was dying and needed a ride to the hospital, a neighbour had to do it because my uncle couldn't be bothered. At my grandmother's funeral, this uncle wallowed in self pity and dropped tons of hints that he expected the other female relatives to pick up where my grandmother left off i.e. looking after him. All his female relatives, myself included, gave him a wide berth after that. He ended up dying alone in a house without heating or electricity. (My uncle's utilities had been cut off because he felt that paying bills was beneath him. He inherited all my grandmother's money and her house so it wasn't a question of him not having the money. He just felt that he was special and should be exempt from stuff like that). I don't have an ounce of pity for him given how he treated my grandmother.
He should try comparing how much most women do for others vs how much most men do. There's the answer right there for why this "disparity" exists.
And look at all the whining about mothers getting to be at home while fathers go to work. Gee, this old grandpa I knew lived exactly in the time when that was the way things worked, but his children and grandchildren (and friends) still loved him very much, and he constantly had visitors up to the end.
So whether anyone will be there for you has nothing to do with whether you were the stay-at-home spouse or the go-to-work spouse.
It has more to do with not having a shitty "fuck everybody else, woe is me" attitude.
What a lot of men seem too thick-skulled to understand is that in life, it's like there's an invisible balance book. Doing good things for people build goodwill. Being shitty to people burns goodwill.
Most men are burning goodwill at a faster rate than they are building any goodwill.
Most women spend their entire lives building goodwill. Sometimes unfortunately putting their efforts into people (often men) that are like bad investments that will go bust and fail to give any returns.
Nevertheless, most women don't go around pissing away any goodwill they've managed to build up.
I don’t know who Hannah is but that is a great comment! My father has been disabled for ten plus years from a bad stroke and my mom has been his caregiver because she was stay at home and never pursued a career. So she is stuck (he had a good disability policy that financed them). But I see how he doesn’t appreciate everything she does. He used to yell at her at 4 am to help him get up and go to the bathroom. He refuses to get a breathing machine even though his snoring and breathing wakes people up. I cannot sleep when they come to visit me. He pisses with his eyes closed and doesn’t care, because he knows my mom and I will clean everything up. Maybe it is a power move. He also drinks alcohol until he can’t stand up right, then he falls down and we are all left dealing with the consequences.
If my mom were to pass away, I would not want to be a caregiver for my father. I would consider taking care of my mom though because I think she would appreciate it and try to be respectful - given how she’s taken care of the family before. I know my dad worked hard for his career, and that is the reason I was able to attend a good college which moved my career forward, and being disabled probably really sucks and I want to have more empathy, but the selfishness and lack of respect for my mom just bothers me. He just doesn’t give a fuck sometimes and it just gets to me.
Sorry if I'm missing something here, but I don't know why there's a need to bring gender into the loneliness issue. Both men and women are suffering from loneliness now more than ever before. They both have little support from family and friends. There are some scrotes who deserve to be lonely for sure, but if only scrotey behaviour caused loneliness then there woudn't be so many women who are lonely too. I do think it's more of a societal issue than a personal failing on the part of lonely individuals.
Oh, I get you. I might become one of those old people who won't have anyone around. I try to be involved in my community, but I get along with elderly people more than I get along with younger people. Realistically all the elders I'm friends with will be gone by the time I'm old.
Oh well, I don't live life according to how many people will visit me when I'm old.
People are responding to this guy framing the problem as if old women get special good treatment above old men, for no reason other than "because they are women". We know that's not true. So a lot of the responses are fair.
It's not as simple as "do good and for sure people will be there for you", either. There's no such certainty in life. But society is made up of people like us, so it's up to us to be the change we want to see in the world, as trite as that might sound.
Societal problems sure happen in our society that isolates us. But I think the main point of this post is how each gender face loneliness differently. Men would somehow blame women for their loneliness, and usually they would do nothing about it. Lonely women would introspect and try to find what she did wrong, and try to fix it.
I think it speaks volumes when a man is left alone considering how the society is catering to men's needs. Also it's not like the world is short of "pick me" women. I guess it's a man so annoying even pick mes don't want him to pick her 🤣
My great aunt never married and or had kids. Lives alone with her cats but her calendar is jam packed with social outings and volunteer work.
It's normal for women to be single and childless because it's usually by choice.
Men who end up alone are likely abusive and alone for a reason.
The blatant misogyny and attitude towards menopausal women from these bitter men. “Where was the empathy when it was women” indeed.
Boo fuckity hoo, Men reap what they sow, they believe the delusion that they have options and when that bubble pops they want to contact their first wives or forever girlfriend they neglected as soon as little miss gold digger leaves them.
I do not feel sorry for lonely men, because these lonely men have no problem hitting on me because they don't want to stay alone. But they would never date a woman around their age like he's 70 and he is with a hot 60 year old, nope they want young flesh and I refuse to even entertain these ugly trolls with a body of a melted candle.
My own father wonders why nobody was there when he had to go to the hospital for a condition he caused himself.. well maybe because you are a narc and a lousy father.
You mean - your p*rn and your vidJa GaMeS won't show up comforting you when you lie in the hospital dying? What about your Star Wars toy collection?
Or the gold digger (finally affordable after turning 40) he left his children and his wife for because he wanted to feel YoUnG aGaIN?! How does that add up? Shame on women! /s
"let's learn to take care of our fathers". How about our fathers stop being worth less than actual piles of shit? Even manure can be used to grow something. Men on the other hand are as useful as a parasite. Fuck them. My dad ruined my childhood and continues play victim, sometimes slandering me and my mom in the process.
If he dies alone, that's his fault. He can call his new racist family who dont even like him for help.
When my father was dying, myself and my siblings visited him in the hospital every day or nearly every day for those couple weeks. When he came home we were by his side for his final few days. He died surrounded by us. Because he had shown up for us and fostered a relationship with us into our adulthoods.
Now an uncle of mine is dying. Know who's there for him? Nobody. He has always been about take, take, take. When his own father died he only contacted my mom to pester her about what money might be left for him. He isn't the one who cleaned out his fathers home and put it up for sale, took care of him when he was dying or made arrangements when he did die. his siblings and even people not related to him helped with that.
When my mom lost her house, he came around to squat in there and tear out the copper wires. I have other family members like him who nobody's gonna be there to care for them, because they only ever showed up to take.
My guess is that more men burn their bridges than women do.
Men really have the audacity to act like they didn't bring this upon themselves. Your actions have consequences. If you act like an asshole, you can't be surprised that no one cares about you. You have to give love first in order to recieve any. I know for a fact this guy is bitter, close-minded, and seeking validation because he only bothers to reply to the tweets reaffirming his deeply-flawed narrative. Deep down, he knows he is wrong or else why woudn't he be able to come up with any rebutttal to all the women rightfully chewing him out on his bs?
I love how they act like you can't be a good father or build a good relationship with your spouse, children and grandchildren while working full-time. That's utter bullshit. Millions of working mothers and fathers manage that just fine because they simply care, make an effort and take the time.
Good men who cared and built healthy, loving relationships and friendships during their life don't die alone. Even if they never had any children of their own.
A great-uncle of mine never had children because he and his wife couldn't have any. He was still a good man and helped raise and support all of his nieces and nephews (and their children) . His wife died a few years before he did but you bet that he didn't die alone and without caretakers because all the people he had loved and supported during his life showed up for him. All of his nieces and nephews, surviving siblings and cousins, grand-nieces and grand-nephews, friends, neighbors etc. were happy to help him.
Reminds me of a SheraSeven clip I saw a while back, she is a former mortician
It's such a boy math meme: men realising a pattern of men dying alone because those men didnt do shit for their families, but shifting the blame onto women 🤣
I had an uncle who died alone. He lived with my grandmother when she was alive, under the pretext of being her "caregiver" but in reality, he was living there rent-free and my grandmother was paying all the bills and waiting on him hand and foot. When my grandmother was dying and needed a ride to the hospital, a neighbour had to do it because my uncle couldn't be bothered. At my grandmother's funeral, this uncle wallowed in self pity and dropped tons of hints that he expected the other female relatives to pick up where my grandmother left off i.e. looking after him. All his female relatives, myself included, gave him a wide berth after that. He ended up dying alone in a house without heating or electricity. (My uncle's utilities had been cut off because he felt that paying bills was beneath him. He inherited all my grandmother's money and her house so it wasn't a question of him not having the money. He just felt that he was special and should be exempt from stuff like that). I don't have an ounce of pity for him given how he treated my grandmother.
He should try comparing how much most women do for others vs how much most men do. There's the answer right there for why this "disparity" exists.
And look at all the whining about mothers getting to be at home while fathers go to work. Gee, this old grandpa I knew lived exactly in the time when that was the way things worked, but his children and grandchildren (and friends) still loved him very much, and he constantly had visitors up to the end.
So whether anyone will be there for you has nothing to do with whether you were the stay-at-home spouse or the go-to-work spouse.
It has more to do with not having a shitty "fuck everybody else, woe is me" attitude.
So close and yet so far... it's insane to me how they fail to notice something so obvious.
What a lot of men seem too thick-skulled to understand is that in life, it's like there's an invisible balance book. Doing good things for people build goodwill. Being shitty to people burns goodwill.
Most men are burning goodwill at a faster rate than they are building any goodwill.
Most women spend their entire lives building goodwill. Sometimes unfortunately putting their efforts into people (often men) that are like bad investments that will go bust and fail to give any returns.
Nevertheless, most women don't go around pissing away any goodwill they've managed to build up.
I don’t know who Hannah is but that is a great comment! My father has been disabled for ten plus years from a bad stroke and my mom has been his caregiver because she was stay at home and never pursued a career. So she is stuck (he had a good disability policy that financed them). But I see how he doesn’t appreciate everything she does. He used to yell at her at 4 am to help him get up and go to the bathroom. He refuses to get a breathing machine even though his snoring and breathing wakes people up. I cannot sleep when they come to visit me. He pisses with his eyes closed and doesn’t care, because he knows my mom and I will clean everything up. Maybe it is a power move. He also drinks alcohol until he can’t stand up right, then he falls down and we are all left dealing with the consequences.
If my mom were to pass away, I would not want to be a caregiver for my father. I would consider taking care of my mom though because I think she would appreciate it and try to be respectful - given how she’s taken care of the family before. I know my dad worked hard for his career, and that is the reason I was able to attend a good college which moved my career forward, and being disabled probably really sucks and I want to have more empathy, but the selfishness and lack of respect for my mom just bothers me. He just doesn’t give a fuck sometimes and it just gets to me.
Yep, my mom's friend is in the ICU right now. My mom, another female friend, and the woman's daughter have been on it and advocating for her.
Her husband of 50 years is at a work conference in another state getting text updates.
Sorry if I'm missing something here, but I don't know why there's a need to bring gender into the loneliness issue. Both men and women are suffering from loneliness now more than ever before. They both have little support from family and friends. There are some scrotes who deserve to be lonely for sure, but if only scrotey behaviour caused loneliness then there woudn't be so many women who are lonely too. I do think it's more of a societal issue than a personal failing on the part of lonely individuals.
Men and their defenders are so contradictory it’s hilarious
"As a man you will never be loved"... I see a common denominator, scrote.
Those ugly comments from those men knowing they're gonna grow up to be those lvm scrotes alone at the hospital kek
BurbNBougie did a video on this! https://youtu.be/-2hoj1wzSMg?si=NmfauHWvlrHFupLz