And I am appalled by the difference between male and female stalkers. So far I have seen the first episode and then the two stories of female stalkers. It's fairly new so I don't want to "spoil" it in case anyone wants to see it, I'll just state the obvious, that is: so far males are way more violent, yet women are treated way more harshly by the judicial system (is it just in the USA? The world? Is it like that in Europe too? I don't know). Male violence towards women especially their spouses is not given enough importance. If anyone has seen this series let me know if I'm just dreaming it or if it is so evident to you too please because it's like...not on the same level.
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Ok so I just finished it and I confirm that women stalkers are annoying but I didn't feel fear when hearing the stories. The male ones are scary af and you FEEL that they are holding themselves from k*lling her.
Second: I noticed that there were many red flags that followers of FDS would have spotted. So it is important to share FDS with women you know also to try to prevent getting closer to dangerous males. A couple met on the apps. One was a bum that needed a place to stay, another one a job, another had history of divorce... Even in one case where the stalker was a woman stalking another woman, it was the new girlfriend stalking his previous girlfriend.
Imagine all of these women saying nah I'm not online dating/ I'm not talking to a jobless or homeless loser/ no I'm not interested in a man AND her baby mama too/ no I don't want this man who doesn't "believe" in spending money for dates (he's a pastor too)/ I'll leave him the first time he lied about alcohol and drug use/...
Be RUTHLESS.
Edit: and for the love of God, if you don't do it for yourself because society brainwashed you into thinking you don't deserve better, think about the fact that a stalker puts in danger your family too! Yes, they stalk and attack parents, sisters and brothers...they go stalk their home if the woman hides somewhere else. They're disgusting.