You have to understand when a man says one thing to a woman, he rarely ever means what he's explicitly saying. Sometimes u gotta read in between the lines.
When a man says "you ugly" what he really means is that "you are blessed by God himself with the freedom to navigate the world without the risk of being made a target for sexual harassment. If you do end up targeted by some depraved scrote, you won't be dehumanised in death by the media and creepy incels insisting that you lead him on because no one of sound mind can possibly say that you were "asking for it" thanks to your looks. Pretty privilege is a lie. It's just a nicer way of saying "potential to get raped and murdered" Ugly women make it to old age."
So stop getting offended and start breathing a sigh of relief!
I only disagree with this in that males only call ugly women ugly. If you aren't an 8-10, then they will think you are ugly.
Actual ugly women (below five, which is average) are invisible to males. Women without makeup on look ugly to males. Most of them are attracted to preteens girls more than adult women, even if they are 50+.
But yeah, pretty privilege is definitely not always a thing. The guys who are "sO nIcE" (stalkish) to pretty girls call fat girls sluts and whores. Most of them are rapists in the heart
If a guy calls me ugly I just ask him why he's still talking to me then?
Pretty privelege is a thing, but misogyny in itself overwhelms everything anyway. Sexual abuse, harrasment, and violence still happens regardless of your looks as a woman.