So, after 3 children and I'm in my 40's. My third child was born 11yrs ago. My body has taken a hit aesthetically. However, I have worked damn hard on using what I have and making it the best I can with fitness. My body is looking good I do admit and I've found a new hobby that I socialise too. My stomach muscles are covered in severe stretch marks above my belly button and the docs said my stomach wall had collapsed and was irreversible. But I've toned it and I now have a toned stomach. Stretch marks are still visable but improved as much as they can. I'm actually learning to embrace them and now wear clothes to show my toned stomach even if the marks are visable. It's quite empowering. BUT....one thing I can't improve are my breasts. They are literally cup size B empty sandbags. I wonder about the future as in all honesty no man will find my breasts appealing! And I don't want no fuggly LV man lol! A HV man surely wouldn't want a woman with my breasts that's for sure. My previous relationships I very rarely removed my bra. So I'm thinking plastic surgery one day. But also don't want to waste money and pain over preferred aesthetics to make me feel less subjected to the; "a woman's sexual market goes down with age".
What are your thoughts here?
Improve your looks if you want to. It has nothing to do with your market value. Looks matter and always will, there is nothing wrong with accepting it. It’s not wrong for men to care about a woman’s looks, it’s just predatory men loves to prey on young women and make it about looks, when it’s not. Those men would ignore anyone about 25 regardless of looks.
Just don’t go overboard with it.