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You just need to listen. Had a guy I was talking to online (networking for my work) that I started casually chatting with. He was always dropping hints about drinks but it was never going to happen because he's not remotely my type and I don't do "drinks".
Today in casual conversation he just happens to drop that he "used to be" a skinhead.
You should have seen how fast and hard my eyebrows hit the ceiling. Boi bai.
The puzzling thing about this: What did he even expect to gain from telling you this? Hoping you'll also be a racist piece of shit and he needed a dogwhistle to out you, so he could have the pleasure of having another racist friend? Or does he think it makes him sound cool to women?? I really don't get it.
I'm seriously surprised that males don't rattle as they walk, because majority of them have rocks for brains, lmao.
I'm told I'm quiet on dates, a great listener, etc because I am a firm believer in encouraging people to talk about themselves. People love to talk about themselves, men even more so. The more you get them talking, the more comfortable they get, the more that mask slips. Then, when you come across the neon blazing red flag you can plan your exit.
Yeah on dating apps I always would ask if they use porn or have ever paid for sex and almost every single one openly admitted to one or the other. Like 1 person said no to both. Out of many many men. The entire sex industry is so normalized and these men are so stupid and deluded that there’s nothing wrong with it, they’ll just openly admit their depravity.