When you go back to an ex, you're saying that you don't trust your past self's feelings, intuition, and/or hardship. Loving yourself means loving your body's warning signs by trusting your own judgment.
What do u think about this quote I made up about 1 minute ago? Lol. Has someone already thought of this?
On the one hand, I agree that intuition is important and women usually break up with people for the right reasons. On the other hand, I think we sometimes make mistakes and that we can grow and become better versions of our 'past selves'. In the past I've broken up with a HVM because I was 'bored'. I worked a lot on myself afterwards and years later I realised that that particular break up was a mistake. I'm very glad I'm not my past self and instead have a much better understanding of my own feelings and own needs.